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When the Normal Person* and a Savants* are True Emotion Mirrors (to each other)

the Normal Person* and the Savants* are like oil and water. Chalk and cheese. Bonding them is nearly impossible… Nearly. Still, it happens… Often, even, that the Normal Person* and a Savants* make for a True Emotion Mirror pair. This is going to be the Normal Person*’s battle with himself or with herself, […]

Who is stronger, the Normal Person* or the Savants*? (Personal change and the thinker types)

As I describe the Savants* as the people who don’t wish to force change on anyone else, you might find it interesting to realize that it is a Savants* who will eventually force change. See, they like who they are, while the Normal Person* think others like who they (the Normal Person*) are. […]

the Savants* State and the Normal Person* State – another way to think about the Savants* and the Normal Person* -attitudes

There is a bit of a thing we need to discuss the two different factions that have been at war with each other since time immemorial. We’ve called them liberals and conservatives, introverts and extroverts, we’ve called them anarchists and tyrants… There is a reason why these states are confused for personality traits or permanent […]

What is a law, and what is a common practise; the Normal Person* vs. The Savants*

the Normal Person* may have some trouble telling law and a norm apart. This comes from the fact that to them, what isn’t strongly enforced isn’t a real law, whereas an Anarchis feels that what isn’t hurting anyone else isn’t a real law… Or it shouldn’t be. Therefore, when a Savants* emphasizes something awesome […]

Where the Normal Person* and the Savants* fit in society?

Both the Normal Person* and the Savants* have a clear role in the society. They are TERRIBLE in direct interpersonal relationships as equals, romantically, they are a disaster when mixed. They should never parent each other but oh so very often do, and it would be great if they never made friends, but, both […]

Why are the Savants* so awkward sometimes – friendly but not really GOING THERE?

the Savants* can give up this “come here go away” vibe quite easily. They’re friendly, open, and approachable, but then pull on the breaks all of the sudden and effectively vanish out of your life. If you chase, they may continue being awkward and evasive, give you a ton of excuses why they’re not […]

the Savants*: DO NOT WRITE/REVEAL YOUR RULES

OK, I LOVE writing rules. I am also a Savants*. I want to give people a good heads up on things that annoy me and that will likely get them kicked out. The reason I do this for is that I figure if you don’t like my rules, you’ll keep your distance. The Young […]

The reason for the Normal Person*’s stress, and why the Savants* feel rarely stressed

the Normal Person* are always worried about their survival alone. They want to secure a relationship to ensure survival, and to the Normal Person*, a spouse with life insurance is actually a consoling thought. An the Savants* doesn’t feel consoled by the thought their partner has life insurance, quite the opposite, they view it […]

How the Normal Person* and the Savants* shame each other (while trying to show love or respect)

the Normal Person* function largely on the feeling of love. The Savants* are far more interested in earning people’s respect. The Normal Person* are very much like small children after attention, where as the Savants* act like young adults trying to prove their capability in this world. The Savants* have the capacity […]

Politics by the Normal Person* and the Savants*

I recently emailed my web address to someone who is very much into politics and I realized I rarely if ever write about how all of this relates to politics. I’ve simply thought “oh they’ll figure it out, it’s clear as bell how it works, no?” The thing is, what we tend to forget is […]

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