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Monday, December 30th, 2024 at
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December 30, 2024 Tags: Cat Type Thinkers, Dog Type Thinker, Narcissism, Thinker Type
According to myself, a narcissist is a person who needs to create a false sense of self to cope with their reality. This results in deflecting blame, insensitivity to other people’s views and opinions, and unwillingness to consider other people’s needs as valid (especially if seeing other people’s needs would result in the loss of […]
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Saturday, December 28th, 2024 at
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December 28, 2024 Tags: Abuse, Cat Type Thinkers, Dog Type Thinker, Narcissism, Thinker Type
Most of my blog posts involve a dysfunctional Modern-Timeless dynamic. However, basically, this dynamic describes a narcissistic reaction (the moral outrage) of the Modern who loves someone who doesn’t love them back. For a Modern, a person who doesn’t return love is seen as “narcissistic,” in layman’s terms. For a Timeless, a person who cannot live […]
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Saturday, December 28th, 2024 at
12:39 am in Australia - Last edit on
December 28, 2024 Tags: Cat Type Thinkers, Dog Type Thinker, Thinker Type
1. Can a person be unhappy or depressed due to serving someone else’s needs but be considered to be living a good life/living right? 2. Is it possible for a person to live a life in a manner that disappoints someone who deeply loves them but still be considered a good person living their […]
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Thursday, December 26th, 2024 at
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December 26, 2024 Tags: Cat Type Thinkers, Dog Type Thinker, Thinker Type
Whenever Modern feel insecure about their life and management of it, they try to minimize their world to something they feel is manageable in size. This is why the Modern maybe drawn to BDSM, straight jackets, padded rooms, and other limited spaces when feeling distressed, because they’ll find these areas controllable. They don’t HAVE TO […]
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Tuesday, December 24th, 2024 at
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December 24, 2024 Tags: Dog Type Thinker, Thinker Type
The Timeless believe words when they are spoken. They believe actions are deceitful, but words can be more or less trusted. The Modern feel the opposite. Therefore, if you’re Timeless, this post suggest that the time for talking has ended, and it’s time to speak in action. What is the message you want to send? […]
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Tuesday, December 17th, 2024 at
5:36 am in Australia - Last edit on
December 17, 2024 Tags: Cat Type Thinkers, Dog Type Thinker, Thinker Type
The reason why we decide who is modern and who is timeless is because we do and say largely the same thing under completely different motivations and different meanings. It is very difficult to decide who is what by outward behavior. Individually, these behaviors change, too, but we have to learn to cue to the […]
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Saturday, December 7th, 2024 at
6:11 am in Australia - Last edit on
December 7, 2024 Tags: Dog Type Thinker, Thinker Type
When you’ve banged it into the head of a Modern that they don’t know how to be of assistance to you, as in they’ve ruined your life as a Timeless, they’ll show signs of regret and submission to this fact. However, they’re not leaving – they threaten to leave: “OK, I’ll leave.” This is supposed […]
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Saturday, December 7th, 2024 at
12:42 am in Australia - Last edit on
December 7, 2024 Tags: Dog Type Thinker, Thinker Type
A Modern is basically a trans person. However, in this context, it’s not about gender transitioning only, but basically, a Modern wants to transition into anything they are not (yet). They must be given the idea, however. This often happens when a school teacher points out an option: “You could be a firefighter; you’re so […]
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Sunday, November 24th, 2024 at
7:32 am in Australia - Last edit on
November 24, 2024 Tags: Dog Type Thinker, Thinker Type
The Modern don’t trust strangers too much. They need to get to know you personally in order to believe you have their best interest at heart. They can also be rather foolish about this; they also believe that if you know them personally, you’ll have their best interest at heart. (Still, they cannot be trusted […]
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Sunday, November 24th, 2024 at
2:57 am in Australia - Last edit on
November 24, 2024 Tags: Dog Type Thinker, Thinker Type
Be mindful, as a Timeless, the way we try to turn people off us is to flaunt our flaws at them. To the Modern, however, this is like a SOS signal and flirtation in the form of “come and fix me. I trust you to know how to change me into a better person.” If […]
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