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How to end a relationship with the Survivalist*partner or friend with a relative ease.

the Survivalist* are somewhat rejection junky. They tend to get all excited if someone is actually trying to reject them; they seem to think that person is trying to take control of them and demonstrate superiority rather than break up with them. They tend not to really “believe” in breakups unless they’re the ones […]

Why the Survivalist*people attack your weaknesses (to make friends)

the Idealists* people, who bond through their strengths and divide by their weaknesses, may not have noticed that the Survivalist* attack each other’s weaknesses in order to point out similarities between them. The conversation should go as follows: – Oh, Helen, look at your stupid brown hair! – What’s that, then, on your […]

A Survivalist* will basically say or do anything to make you stay.

What scares the Survivalist*people more than anything else in this world is to be alone. This surpasses all logic; they’ll let you be the danger they know if the option is being alone. They will let you cheat on them, verbally abuse, hit, kick, and abuse in every way you can, and if they […]

How the Survivalist*people turn “everyone” against you online.

The online world used to be awesome when it took forward-thinking, progressive, and smart the Idealists* to populate it. When the Survivalist* still scoffed at the whole idea as “stupid.” The Internet was a supportive, fun, humorous place where you could find your tribe quite easily among like-minded people. Not so much anymore. […]

How to make friends (as the Survivalist*)

the Survivalist* (or shall I call regular, everyday people with normal-people problems) tend to try and make friends with people who have their life figured out. They may try and do this by trying hard to appear either super confident (without being so) or super insecure, exaggerating their need for a friend. Either or. […]

Communicating with the Survivalist* as a cat-person (about your future plans.)

the Survivalist* would probably be relieved to know that when the Idealists* talk to you about “their problems,” they are not actually talking about their problems, but they are simply chatting. They are intelligent people. Therefore, they find whatever small problems they have intriguing and exciting. They focus on the problem as if […]

How a Idealists* polyandrous male star can protect themselves against the Survivalist*polygynous female fan base.

Believe it or not, polyandrous the Cat Thinking men prefer a male audience. Maybe not ALL-male audience, but mainly male audience. There are, in fact,  two ways for men to protect themselves from the wrong type: rough looks or a talent that other professionals and serious hobbyists cannot deny… Or both. If a man is […]

Narcissistic abuse in the Survivalist*and the Idealists* dynamics.

For the Survivalist* and a Idealists* to have wound up in a relationship together, the Survivalist* must have chased the Idealists* for a relationship. Now, before I continue, I must say that not all narcissistic relationships start the same way, and that True Emotion Mirror relationships can SEEM quite narcissistic at […]

the Survivalist* like to PROVOKE YOU in order to MAKE FRIENDS.

The Survivalist* and the Idealists* make friends very differently. The Survivalist* argue to MAKE friends, the Idealists* argue to BREAK friendships (and conversations). Let me first tell you that I USED TO get provoked SO EASILY into arguments. I’d spend days online fuming and arguing with people who I knew would […]

The Survivalist* and the Idealists* view titles very differently.

The Survivalist*people want and need a sense of guarantee of permanence no matter what. The Idealists* want a guarantee of abilities to perform in a position. The Survivalist*will get themselves a title expecting it to give them a permanent role in a company or group, as that title, to them, should guarantee […]

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