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If there’s one thing a Idealists* needs to hide from the Survivalist* is how lonely they are.

The one thing that puts a gleam of seeing a chance to be someone’s hero is when the Survivalist*pots a lonely the Idealists* – and they are not difficult to find. The Idealists* enjoy their time alone, and to a dog-type, this is the saddest thing they’ve ever seen. They don’t understand […]

the Survivalist* parent can be physically abusive toward a Idealists* child to teach them to stand up for themselves.

the Survivalist* can be verbally or physically abusive toward anyone they love to teach them to stand up for themselves, particularly their children or spouse. Controversially, sapioamosist will resort to physical violence only when all love and respect toward a person has died in them, and in addition, for a Idealists* to resort […]

The Idealists* and the Survivalist* define “respect” differently.

When the Survivalist*asks for respect, they basically mean the exact opposite of what a Idealists* means. Self-respect is similarly the opposite for them: the Survivalist* respect: “Consider me worthy of your company and care.” the Survivalist* self-respect: “I demand that you will not reject me because I am a worthy individual […]

the Survivalist* thinks love means “taking care of someone”

the Survivalist* and the Idealists* think love means vastly different things. Whichever way a Idealists* tries to explain to the Survivalist*what love is, they always somehow link it to “being taken care of.” the Idealists*: “Love is a joy of another person’s existence.” the Survivalist* fills the sentence: “…because […]

Why can’t the Survivalist* keep out of your dating business?

the Survivalist* date for their friends and family, not for themselves. This is important for the Idealists* to understand, that the Survivalist* take it for granted, that their opinion on your love life matters more to you than your feelings toward that person. If they don’t like this person, to the Young […]

the Survivalist* play the waiting game and try to wait out other competitors over your affection.

When it comes to awkward relationships, the Survivalist* can certainly arrange them for the Idealists* to deal with. They sometimes play a waiting game, trying to “keep in the competition” for longer than other suitors of a popular individual. They may even other’s ignore sexual orientation, thinking “it can’t matter that much” because […]

the Survivalist*: I have two potential spouses; which one should I choose?

If you are indeed the Survivalist* as the title suggests, ask him or her if they want the marriage or you. If they answer “marriage,” marry them; if they say “you,” don’t. An Idealist*, who you should never marry, will always answer they want “you”, and a dog-type, which is who you should […]

What the Survivalist* and the Idealists* find romantic.

Romance has two different modalities: non-sexual romance and sexual romance. We divide non-sexual romance into further two; idealist romance, which is the Idealists* domain, and romance of caring for others, which is more the Survivalist*romance but nothing that the Idealists* cannot appreciate – momentarily. Sexual romance is not really the Survivalist*tuff […]

Wean the Survivalist* off you.

If you are struggling to get away from someone, you may feel that you have to employ strategies that are… Dispicable. I’ve certainly utilized and even recommended a few. Let’s try this first. Let your the Survivalist* get gradually used to you leaving, rather than you fighting your way out of the situation. I […]

New Relationship Falsehoods Survivalist* and Idealists* Style

When forming a new romantic or sexual relationship, both the Survivalist* and the Idealists* may not be quite upfront about what they want in the end. The Idealists* will be coy about things, they’ll add information as time goes on, but whatever they lay out there is intended to be there. If […]

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