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When the Survivalist* is raised in accepting the Idealists* idealist environment you create ENTITLEMENT and overt sensitivity

the Survivalist* are born to conform. The Idealists* are born to liberate and accept everybody. When the Survivalist* is born in a society, where everyone is accepted by default (in the Idealists* style) they will grow up to DEMAND acceptance, approval, freedoms, and liberty, but as they are seeking their boundaries, […]

Both the Survivalist* and the Idealists* accept the existence of social hierarchy

Both the Survivalist* and the Idealists* accept a hierarchy of humans. We are ALL aware of “better” or “worse”, and, “beta”, and “alpha”. We are pack animals after all. However, the Idealists*, in their fear of hurting others will actually do just that, by trying to protect the Survivalist* from emotional […]

the Survivalist* make friends by sticking around like a bad smell

This post was published from a draft mode, FYI   I write this from a very the Idealists* perspective. The way  the Survivalist* make friends, to a Idealists*, seems like a page from “a guidebook of how to act like a lunatic”. It makes 0 sense to us, and it is often […]

What does feeling normal mean to the Survivalist*?

inclusion, place, connection, love  

the Survivalist* Packs

the Survivalist* Pack is a bond of several the Survivalist* who have made a lasting connection to each other over several shared lifetimes. These are highly bonded soulmates, but unlike True Emotion Mirrors, they click through their failures, weaknesses, abusiveness, immorality, or alternatively their addictions, sicknesses, and disabilities. It isn’t always as bad […]

What are “mixed signals” from the Idealists* and the Survivalist* perspective?

Another hilarious difference between the Idealists* and the Survivalist* is what we consider to be “mixed signals.” When the Survivalist* is looking for a relationship, they’re giving all single people the “come hither” signal. “Hello everyone, I am single and looking!” When a Idealists* goes out, they have similar energy: “single […]

the Idealists* and the Survivalist* – Insiders and Outsiders

The difference between the Idealists* and the Survivalist* is that the Idealists* view themselves as insiders – even if the smallest unit they control is 1, themselves, they are already INSIDE. They have a strong sense of who they are and what they like, and who they’d associate with given enough of […]

When the Survivalist* and a Idealists* are True Emotion Mirrors (to each other)

the Survivalist* and the Idealists* are like oil and water. Chalk and cheese. Bonding them is nearly impossible… Nearly. Still, it happens… Often, even, that the Survivalist* and a Idealists* make for a True Emotion Mirror pair. This is going to be the Survivalist*’s battle with himself or with herself, […]

Who is stronger, the Survivalist* or the Idealists*? (Personal change and the thinker types)

As I describe the Idealists* as the people who don’t wish to force change on anyone else, you might find it interesting to realize that it is a Idealists* who will eventually force change. See, they like who they are, while the Survivalist* think others like who they (the Survivalist*) are. […]

the Idealists* State and the Survivalist* State – another way to think about the Idealists* and the Survivalist* -attitudes

There is a bit of a thing we need to discuss the two different factions that have been at war with each other since time immemorial. We’ve called them liberals and conservatives, introverts and extroverts, we’ve called them anarchists and tyrants… There is a reason why these states are confused for personality traits or permanent […]

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