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What is a law, and what is a common practise; the Survivalist* vs. The Idealists*

the Survivalist* may have some trouble telling law and a norm apart. This comes from the fact that to them, what isn’t strongly enforced isn’t a real law, whereas an Anarchis feels that what isn’t hurting anyone else isn’t a real law… Or it shouldn’t be. Therefore, when a Idealists* emphasizes something awesome […]

Where the Survivalist* and the Idealists* fit in society?

Both the Survivalist* and the Idealists* have a clear role in the society. They are TERRIBLE in direct interpersonal relationships as equals, romantically, they are a disaster when mixed. They should never parent each other but oh so very often do, and it would be great if they never made friends, but, both […]

The reason for the Survivalist*’s stress, and why the Idealists* feel rarely stressed

the Survivalist* are always worried about their survival alone. They want to secure a relationship to ensure survival, and to the Survivalist*, a spouse with life insurance is actually a consoling thought. An the Idealists* doesn’t feel consoled by the thought their partner has life insurance, quite the opposite, they view it […]

the Survivalist* falls in love with AN OPPORTUNITY to bond

It is incredibly difficult for a Idealists* to understand what drives the Survivalist* into a relationship with someone. An the Idealists* can state clearly what kind of qualities they appreciate in another person, and what are the traits they avoid and despise in others. Now, the Survivalist* is loyal to their […]

How the Survivalist* and the Idealists* shame each other (while trying to show love or respect)

the Survivalist* function largely on the feeling of love. The Idealists* are far more interested in earning people’s respect. The Survivalist* are very much like small children after attention, where as the Idealists* act like young adults trying to prove their capability in this world. The Idealists* have the capacity […]

Politics by the Survivalist* and the Idealists*

I recently emailed my web address to someone who is very much into politics and I realized I rarely if ever write about how all of this relates to politics. I’ve simply thought “oh they’ll figure it out, it’s clear as bell how it works, no?” The thing is, what we tend to forget is […]

The hair of a difference between the Survivalist* and a dominant the Idealists*

the Idealists* can be very dominant by their approach to life. It’s their way or the highway, whereas the Survivalist* feels it’s their way or your way but there’ll never be a highway. Dominant anarchists exist, and their attitude can be explained as such: “You’re on my territory, and on my territory, I […]

Creating equality the Survivalist* way and the Idealists* way

There is again an interesting way to attempt to get to the same place among co-habitants that approach the same goal from opposite ends by the Survivalist* and the Idealists*. Both types agree, again, that people make mistakes. The Survivalist* feel that “equals” make mistakes, but leaders don’t, whereas the Idealists* […]

Why coaching the Survivalist* is not very effective

I have referred to the Survivalist* as “potato sack clients”. The feeling you get is the CONSTANT need to keep lifting them back up, and as soon as you let them try for themselves, they’ll just slump back onto the floor helpless and needy. They are the client that takes 90% of your time […]

Are the Survivalist* bad people?

Personally, I am a Idealists* by my personality alignment. That means that I have a natural dislike toward all the Survivalist*, and I can’t help it any more than any other the Idealists* can in this world. We hate the Survivalist*, and there’s nothing we can do about it. HOWEVER, as […]

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