the Idealists* have a strong sense of who they are as an individual. If their idea of who they are, who they love to be, falls into the ideal of some other group, such as “men” or “women”, they may seem like highly submissive the Survivalist*. As in, a Idealists* man who […]

There are some ways that the Survivalist* and the Idealists* are very similar. One of them is this: Both types want everyone to be happy – the big difference is what brings them happiness. When both types try to explain to the other that they’re free to do these things that make everyone […]

When the Survivalist* says these phrases, they interpret them in a different way (as they hear them). the Idealists* says: “There’s nothing you can say or do.” the Idealists* means: “I have made up my mind and you cannot change my mind by saying or doing anything, even though I know you […]

The main difference between a Idealists* and the Survivalist* is how they came to the definition of their own self; their ego. What do they believe they are. I have a somewhat outlandish theory as to how the Survivalist* became the way they are; I believe they are reincarnations of slaves, servants, […]

“You are allowed to change me. I know you do this with love and respect toward me, and for my and our best. It’s not like you simply try and save yourself the trouble of finding yourself a compatible partner.” I said to my lover this morning. In spirit. We haven’t met. There are two […]

Both the Survivalist* and the Idealists* were born the way they are. The way they conduct themselves from there on is determined by their inherent type. Parenting has nothing to do with how the child develops toward the positive, but unfortunately, if the child develops to the negative, that has bad parenting written […]

There’s a key difference to the way the Survivalist* and the Idealists* bond in families, friendship, business, and love. While the Survivalist* bond through lack/have, the Idealists* bond through have/have. The Idealists*, as the name suggests, want to find someone who they feel can match what they bring onto the […]