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Psychopathy – the Survivalist* and the Idealists* forms of it

Just like every other psychological condition, the Survivalist* thinker type and the Idealists* thinker type create different kinds of “psychopaths”. The diagnosis, treatment, and prevention of both require the exact opposite steps. The Idealists* thinker type is ALWAYS fighting for the personal freedom of their own or someone they feel is oppressed. […]

“I don’t need you anymore” maturing per the Idealists* and the Survivalist*

The Idealists* thinker type, again, compared to the Survivalist* does this one thing the opposite way: How they become independent. An the Idealists* never truly feels like they need a parent, therefore, they spend their youth trying to prove to their mother or father that they are already old enough to be […]

the Survivalist*’s issues with categorizing people

the Survivalist*, as the name suggests, are people who view life as a task list, roles to take up. Each person, in their mind, is judged by how well they play the role they’ve been cast in. The Idealists* see people as unique beings each of whom should have the freedom of choosing […]

Bonding Method; the Survivalist* and the Idealists*

The bonding method describes a person’s approach to new people. The goal, for both types, is to gel with the new group, or a new chosen group or a person. However, the Idealists* do so predominately cautiously and with what they call respect: “I don’t want to step on your toes, but I need […]

the Idealists* breakup attempt that turns into a proposal in the Survivalist* mind

Now, forgive me for the tone. I am a Idealists* myself. I’ve struggled with my relationships with the Survivalist* my entire life, and my patience with them has always been… Short. I’ve spent the last 10 years of my life trying to understand how everything I say to the Survivalist* somehow turns […]

Why do the Survivalist* like to meddle into everything (especially in spirit) and how to turn them away

It is one of the most difficult life challenges for a Idealists* to figure out a way to turn a helpful the Survivalist* off the idea of “helping them” to sort their lives out. The Survivalist* think they have had this life thing figured out a long time ago. To them, life […]

How to teach the Survivalist* a new behavior

The following is going to sound crazy to you. In fact, I wouldn’t treat a dog this way, and yet, it seems to be the only way to teach the Survivalist* a new trick: To train them with the same principles as you’d train a dog: Teach one new thing at a time. Pick […]

the Survivalist* behavior can be molded by telling them what they’re like

the Survivalist* don’t truly have a self-defined ego, idea of self. Their personalities are largely mouldable by their surroundings. Therefore, if you have a troublesome the Survivalist* in your life, the best way to end their toxic behavior is to start telling them another story about themselves. Imagine the best way for you […]

the Survivalist* turn to codependent narcissists, and the Idealists* turn into psychopaths

Now, before I start, I must inform you that I am not a psychologist or a psychiatrist, or anything to the effect. I am a layman with a knack for psychology. The following is for professionals to consider and prove, and for anyone who feels confident to make up their own mind about what they […]

the Survivalist* Sapioamorist’s guide to the Idealists* Sapioamorist True Emotion Mirror

Now there’s a headline that doesn’t make any SEO1 sense! This is why I need you to refer your friends as otherwise, nobody will ever find this blog and the world won’t be saved. :p A Survivalist* Sapioamorist, you, are a person who falls in love with a person’s mind (or the intuitive sense […]

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