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The bitter salt for the Idealists*, how the Survivalist* think YOU are the charity case.

It is understandable, really, why the Survivalist* would consider a lot of the Idealists* a charity case. So often, the Idealists* have unusual hobbies, business ideas, and other endeavors, that the Survivalist* think they are somewhat unable to handle the real world. This is true, to an extent, but not for […]

How to get rid of the Survivalist* thinking partner

If you find yourself married or in a serious relationship with the Survivalist* both of you thinking a different thing was going on… Like for example like this. And you want to end the relationship… The best thing to do with the Survivalist* is to find yourself a replacement. Find a replacement for […]

the Survivalist* or the Idealists* thinking in your teen years

As a teenager, how did you choose your identity? General the Idealists* – Who am I? (Philosopher, taps into their subconsciousness for cues on what they already ARE, or what they enjoyed being in the New the Idealists* phase lifetimes. “Old soul.” Chooses idols based on “you seem to be a bit like […]

The break from the Survivalist* to a Idealists*

Across lifetimes, we tend to do the same thing over and over until we ace it. Once we become the best we can be at a certain craft, and in the Survivalist* thinking world, for women, that is being a mother and a wife, and then, a successful business woman on the side, after […]

Why do some people (the Survivalist*) fear sex?

Remember that for the Survivalist*, everything is a social or a communal thing. Sex is no different. The Survivalist* have an interesting fear of intimacy. They fear everything one-on-one, because that, to them, feels like they have been ousted from the security of the group. When separated from the group, they feel they […]

the Idealists* and the Survivalist* thinking will become less defined in the future

the Idealists* and the Survivalist* thinking definitions are dependent on there being a clear public, all-inclusive societal or cultural expectation where you’re born. The choices must be either taboo or virtually unavailable. The people who adapt well to the established culture are the Survivalist*. The Survivalist* are simultaneously able and willing to […]

How the Survivalist* (typically women) process unpleasant information

Because the Survivalist* are hard-wired into believing everyone around them speaks in some kind of a code language, when someone is trying to present an unpopular, unpleasant, or unfamiliar idea, or to give them personal feedback that they do not understand why someone would say that, the Survivalist* tend to decide that what […]

Why do the Survivalist* get stuck on one thought that they can’t shake?

As I start writing this, I have no idea what the answer is going to be. Sort of  like I write most of my posts. It is simply a question that needs answering, and I’ve got the background information to figure this out. I will write out my thought process, just to give you an […]

How do you convince the Survivalist* you don’t need to change. (Bad advice actually.)

I started drafting a post because I finally made a breakthrough with the Survivalist*. As I was writing this post, I hit a wall again. I decided to publish this anyway because this is freaking interesting how IMPOSSIBLE it is to communicate with the Survivalist*!! The original post the Survivalist* hate change. […]

Breaking up with the Survivalist*: “I am unhappy. :((“

A Survivalist* doesn’t expect to be happy in life. They expect to be safe and sound, but they are not counting on being happy, and they can live with not being happy. An Idealist*, on the other hand, wants happiness, and they will spend a lifetime longing for happiness, or in the pursuit […]

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