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the Survivalist* Personalities do not need to learn how to love the Idealists* Personalities

the Survivalist* Personalities find it very distressing to think that not everyone could be loved by everyone in the best possible way. Therefore, writings like the True Emotion Mirror description or the description on how the Idealists* Personalities love each other on True Emotion Mirror level cause them distress because they cannot find […]

Risks; why the Idealists* put the Survivalist* in danger

As the Idealists* think for themselves, and the Survivalist* want to behave in ways that make them popular and well-liked, when strong the Idealists* thinking ideals arise within a group of friends or people, the Survivalist* stand to make serious errors in judgement because they do not know their own intellectual […]

the Idealists* flirt differently to the Survivalist*

the Survivalist*, once accepted into a group with the Idealists* in it, are very malleable. “You call a shot, I will follow.” However, they prefer to make their decisions as equal partners, feeling their way into a decision; “I think the correct way to think about this is a, how do you feel?” […]

“I don’t love you!” and what it means to the Survivalist*

From the Idealists*’s perspective, the Survivalist* are insufferably narcissistic. To be fair, they feel the same way about us. (I’m a Idealists*, of course.) When you tell them that you don’t love them, they hear you say that you have an emotional issue that you don’t know how to fix, and you’re […]

The difficulty of telling the difference between the Idealists* and the Survivalist*

I am the first to admit that separating the two thinker types is not exactly easy or clear-cut. It is more like a degree of how the Survivalist* or the Cat Thinking you are. The level seems to change somewhat based on the group of people you’re currently with. All people turn somewhat the […]

Getting on the same page with the Survivalist* runner or chaser

This is the one thing that I WISH someone had been able to tell me when I was 20. My life would have been so different had I known this. When the Survivalist* is convinced that they are “one” with you, it can be near impossible to make them see the world from your […]

About the Idealists* and the Survivalist* relationship ideals

The main difference between the Idealists* and the Survivalist* are what they value in a relationship. In essence, the Survivalist* thinking ideal is: “I will never let you go no matter what!” (Greatest love is to never give up on a person no matter how much they fight back.) In contrast, the […]

Cat and the Survivalist* Levels

As a teenager, how did you choose/define your identity? Master the Idealists* – I know who I am all the way to the core -and I’m willing to learn more and grow.  (Knows who they are, knows how to avoid harmful people with class and without drama, knows what they want and what they […]

The Survivalist* Precious Soulmate*

The Survivalist* friendships and all platonic relationships are all about coaching each other to be better people. Make a due note that the Idealists* do not feel loved in relationships based on this idea, quite the opposite they feel suffocated and unloved, and their variation of these relationships are the liberator of the […]

the Survivalist*’s idea of a commitment (compared to the Intuitive)

The Survivalist* need an absolute commitment to truly fall in love. They begin dating to find a partner they can trust, and usually, this means they want someone from a family very similar to that of their own. They pay a lot of attention to your family background, much more so than the Old […]

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