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How to turn the tables on an obsessive the Modern -lover?

Think “capture them with love,” “tiny, cute, adorable,” and “you belong to me!” Then, do what you want. Think of them as your new pet hamster. You can do whatever you want, and they need to obay. (I wouldn’t treat a hamster that way tho.) As any reasonable human being, they’ll want out of that […]

the Modern will (attempt to) “kill the former king/queen” before moving on.

Amber Heard did it to Johnny Depp quite famously. I believe it was done to Charles Manson, and a number of other people in #meToo era: To destroy the old crush, or, as I say, the King before moving onto serving another. If another person rejects the Modern who had a “previous king,” they may […]

“No time wasters” as per the Timeless and the Modern definition.

If you ever see a “no time wasters” or some reference to “time wasters” in a dating profile, it’s more than likely the Modern’s profile, but if a Timeless would write it, they’d mean the complete opposite with it, again, than the Modern does. A the Modern is looking for a monogamous commitment of some […]

the Modern love through obedience and training.

Obedience, to the Modern, is the practice of love. To a Timeless, it’s a kink at best and a punishment at worst. When the Modern searches “How do I make someone obey me?” is effectively the same as a Timeless’ “How do I become a better partner?” “Bossy” or “Obedient” in the Modern’ terms is […]

“Kids” don’t need to be spanked, the Modern -type of kids may need to be, however.

There are two types of people in this world, and these types are in-born. Old Soul* kids do not need to be spanked – they know, deep down, it is possible they are not loved and that their parents may even hate them, so they are not going to be testing their boundaries too much. […]

Don’t force The Timeless into a relationship nor The Modern out of it.

The Modern feel the need to prove or to be proven that they are “serious” about the relationship by insisting upon it. The Timeless need you to be the best, most amazing person they can imagine ever winding up with to fall in love with you and to keep a relationship going with you. Now, […]

When advising the Modern, don’t use the words “don’t” or “can’t”…

the Modern are very childish people, even as adults. When you advise them with a “don’t” or “you can’t,” they are absolutely going to do just that, just to see what they are missing out on. If you tell them, “Don’t stick your tongue on a frozen iron pole,” and you think they’d fucken listen […]

What does the Modern need to conform to?

Hatersthe Modern are inherently conformist. They still need more people in their soul circles, whereas the Timeless have more or less closed the doors to new peopleā€”or are at least trying to. Where a Timeless needs no more people to make up for numbers, they’ll only ever let a new Potential True Emotion Mirror in, […]

the Modern attack your uncertainty to force you to accept their way.

the Timeless must become very aware of the fact that the Modern attacks your uncertainty in a way that pushes you to accept THEIR wish or will. If you are unsure about whether you owe them something, they will be certain on your behalf that you do. Now, tell them this: “I am not certain […]

Permanently ending a relationship of any kind with the Young Soul*

Ending a relationship with the Young Soul* is downright impossible when they have decided that they’re in like Flynn. You will have to negotiate the relationship’s closure and offer a “severance package” to your Lover-thinking* person. You will have to agree to the terms of separation, regardless of what relationship this is. This post is […]

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