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the Idealists*’s idea of “a commitment” compared to the Survivalist* idea of Commitment

The Idealists* find the freedom to leave but wanting to stay with someone the ultimate rush in a relationship. They get excited about the thought that although there is nothing really stopping you from leaving, each day that I wake up, you’re still here, because this is where you want to be, with me, […]

the Survivalist*

has a fetish for obedience and self-denial. The bigger the sacrifice, the bigger the love they expect to receive from it. (ie. transitioning genders should lead to acceptance and love.) hates the Idealists* for not loving them despite their conformity and willingness to conform. They further hate the Idealists* for disrupting the categories […]

Change your look to say “I don’t love you” to the Survivalist*

When you are somehow trapped in a relationship with someone without being able to really break it off, one way to tell them that you don’t want them anymore is to start changing your look towards someone who you are actually inspired by. The more drastic the change, the better. We always want to look […]

the Idealists* and the Survivalist* thinking humor

OK. the Idealists* thinking humor on a dating site: “Oh so you’re not into necrophilia then… Too bad, I thought you were a real kinkster, and now it turns out you’re all vanilla!” the Survivalist*: “OMG, where do I get these crazies?” *Block* The Idealists* believes everyone knows it is SO RARE […]

The ideal female – by the Survivalist* thinking standards and by the Idealists* thinking standards

the Survivalist* thinking ideal female Main goal; being social, to fit in, to have a close-knit group of friends. The definitions for the ideal the Survivalist* female vary a little bit from country-to-country and community-to-community, but here are some popular modern ideals that Western countries seem to largely agree on. Not concerned about […]

The Ideal Male – by the Survivalist* thinking standards and by the Idealists* thinking standards

The ideal male has been quite clearly defined for our society by a joint effort from men and women alike, so I decided that unlike the ideal female, I’ll describe the difficulties that each thinker type faces pursuing the ideal male role. “The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in […]

the Survivalist* and the Idealists* thinking males and rules

Before I describe the ideal male (of 2o17), I’ll describe the difference in thinking and reacting to rules and regulations, that are, sometimes an inseparable part of a man’s life. Because the military is such a male institution and driven by strict rules and hirarchy, I’ll use that as an example of how the Survivalist* and […]

the Idealists* thinking and the Survivalist* thinking – me rethinking

I’ve been dancing around this one for a long time. There is a state where people go by the society’s norms even though they are the Idealists*, obviously, and they want to please and tolerate people UP TO A POINT. That is a Idealists* thinking way of being. They DO follow the expectation […]

Tweaking theories… Problem areas with the Survivalist*/the Idealists*-duality

2020 edit: Many of these problems have been solved in the latest versions of the theory but some of this is still present in the archives. The Survivalist*/the Idealists* definition is not COMPLETELY set in stone The Survivalist* and the Idealists* definition SEEMS like an absolute way of being. A rigid, […]

Both the Survivalist* and the Idealists* get quiet when the arguing gets too vicious

It is important to make a notice, that both the Survivalist* and the Idealists* quiet down and withraw in a relationship or in a family where there is a loud argumentative person around, whether that is the Survivalist* or a Idealists*. If the Idealists* is too young or too poor […]

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