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Bad behavior in the Survivalist* vs. The Idealists*

Both the Idealists* and the Survivalist* are prone to exhibiting bad… VERY bad behavior at times, but for different motivations once more: An Idealist* wants everyone who doesn’t love him or her to get the hell out of the way and leave them to who they are. A Survivalist* wants to […]

Bonding styles and methods, the Survivalist* thinking and the Idealists* thinking

The way the two different thinker types bond is typical to the thinker type, but partially a learned strategy. Some the Idealists*, particularly men, have learned the way the Survivalist* form new bonds and relationships, and can be quite good at it, even though that type of bonding wouldn’t be entirely natural to […]

Why the Idealists* children hate their the Survivalist* parent(s)

The Survivalist* believe their job as a parent is to guide and  nurture and raise their children. They believe in giving them structure and rules, limitations, and a route to follow. the Idealists*, despite their  upbringing, as a natural alignment that the Survivalist*, no matter how much they hate this idea, cannot […]

A perfect example of how psychology interprets the Idealists* and the Survivalist* thinking -patterns

The Survivalist* and the Idealists* thinking -differentiations are my own theory and not yet understood by general psychology. A recent study shows, apparently, that people who prefer to stay friends with their exes are psychopaths and narcissists. Now, there are so many things wrong in that sentence I cannot even begin to unravel […]

The Survivalist* thinking and the Idealists* thinking modes are not permanent, rather a reaction to the company present

As you might have noticed when trying to fit the Idealists*/the Survivalist* types into practice, there are some fluctuation in how people are sometimes. The Survivalist* thinking mode means that you are ready to make a full commitment to whomever you are with, as a work partner, friend, or a lover. The […]

Life advice equally fit for both the Survivalist* and the Idealists*!

This is surely a rare treat; a piece of advice that works equally for the Idealists* as well as the Survivalist*, even if the approach to it will be different for each thinker type, lol! If you want to belong, figure out what group you already fit the best with and which group […]

the Survivalist* invest in relationships, the Idealists* in individuals

When the Survivalist* offers kindness, friendliness, help, gifts, guidance etc. to another person, they invest in their mutual relationship, whatever their relationship. They think: “I treat you this way, our relationship becomes stronger.” An Idealist*, when they show another person kindness or friendliness or is helpful, gives guidance, or gifts, invests in the individual […]

Stuff that the Survivalist* does that drives a Idealists* on the wall

1 . They smile and laugh the loudest when they have no idea what is being said The Survivalist* are social animals. They sense an emotion easily but are not necessarily logically aware of what the emotion is about, especially when people who are smarter than them are having a good laugh. To demonstrate […]

the Survivalist* Coaching (Commitment and Unity -driven people)

As a Idealists*, I don’t consider myself the best coach for the Survivalist*, but at the same time, I am, quite likely, one of the few people in this world that can actually give you the answers that you’ve been screaming for for as long as there’s been humans. This is the stuff […]

Moving masses; convince the Idealists*, distract the Survivalist*

Here is the premise: First; The Survivalist* want everyone to agree on everything. EVERYONE must agree on EVERYTHING. That is the basic idea the Survivalist* live by. We must, for instance, agree that not everyone thinks correctly, but we all must try to make them think correctly. Second; The Idealists* want to […]

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