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How to have a relationship with the Survivalist*?

I have spent a lot of time contemplating how to end a relationship with a determined Survivalist* who simply doesn’t want to take a no for an answer and is prepared to do anything to be “a friend” (a dog) for you. This relationship poses multiple problems, and I wholeheartedly advise against it, but […]

the Survivalist* guide to a Cat Type Thinking* child (and elder)

The Cat cat-type thinking child will be an easy child to care for until they reach mid-teens. Boys will start looking for more freedom a little earlier than girls, but both boys and girls will stop asking for your permission the day they turn 18. And you should let them. In any culture, where the […]

The only thing the Survivalist* wants and needs to hear is “You don’t have to be responsible (yet).”

the Survivalist* do take responsibility for their close ones, sometimes too much so. They are prematurely responsible, however. You may have to give them boundaries about what they can and cannot handle yet. You should never force them to take responsibility, and be careful not to even suggest that they should – and always […]

the Survivalist* are drawn to the competence of old souls – the Idealists*.

the Survivalist* are basically younger souls who granted, annoy the living daylights out of the old souls – the Idealists*. What the Survivalist* are typically after is guidance, life lessons, and hand-holding. We tend to be a little too interested in our sex lives to give them much attention, so they’ve learned […]

the Survivalist* follow the leader blindly – and are willing to commit murders to prove they trust the leader 100%.

What makes Lover-thinking* dangerous for themselves and others is that they are willing to follow their leader so blindly that they’ll commit murders without being asked to sometimes. (Currently, the more likely outcome to this blind worship is a severed penis or reverted vagina, however.) The problem is that if the leader is a Old […]

the Survivalist* believe confessing their sins will get them forgiveness and love.

Christian God is the Survivalist*. Satan seems to be a Idealists*. The whole duality is about nothing more than these two factions disagreeing on a fundamental level about what is right and what is wrong. What does Satan do, exactly? Basically, he fornicates and punishes hypocrites and greedy people and tempts people to […]

the Idealists* want to stand out, the Survivalist* want to vanish into a group.

the Idealists* will insult the Survivalist* when they’re paying them a compliment, and vice versa. The Idealists* like to think they’re special and unique without comparison, and the Survivalist* want to know they fit a moldĀ and are like everybody else. They just want to be like everybody else. Now, what “everybody […]

Collaboration with the Survivalist* vs. a Idealists*

the Survivalist* express willingness to collaborate by expressing admiration. The Idealists* express admiration by expressing admiration. It doesn’t need to lead anything, it’s mostly just stating a fact. Maybe a green light to pursue friendship, which again is not an invitation to collaborate, which will boggle the Survivalist*’s mind. The Idealists* […]

the Survivalist* commit to a relationship type and sacrifice their own traits to it.

The way Survivalist* and Idealist*s view personal preferences in relationships is very different. The Survivalist* thinkers take it for granted that everyone is after a monogamous ISO-standard marriage to please their parents and bring new blood to the family. The Survivalist* would read terms like “bisexual” or “polyamorous” as descriptions of […]

Why the Survivalist* should avoid the Idealists*

Before I start, I’ll tell you that I am a Idealists*. Usually, I think quite highly of myself and my type, but when I switch to YOUR perspective, we don’t sound that nice. (The same is true in reverse, too, btw.) the Survivalist* don’t usually find reasons to avoid anybody, but I’ll give […]

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