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A well-adjusted the Survivalist* has no enemies except their Cat Type Thinking* immediate family.

I must point out, very clearly, and I should do more of it, I’m sure, that a well-adjusted the Survivalist* has no enemies except their Cat Type Thinking* immediate family and loved ones. Mostly, they get on with everyone with no difficulty at all. They are active in their communities, helpful, sunny, and lovely, […]

Why the Survivalist* shouldn’t waste time trying to get a Idealists* to love them.

the Survivalist* often try to make the Idealists* feel love toward them. The problem is that the way the Survivalist* and the Idealists* experience love is vastly different. What ignites it is like night and day. The closest thing to love the Survivalist* gets with a Idealists* is pity, […]

the Idealists* fall in love at first sight, the Survivalist* feel ambition at first sight

When the Idealists* fall in love, they typically do it at first sight. When the Survivalist* fall in love at first sight, it tends to mean they feel ambitious attraction; they see someone they believe can and will lift their status and stability. When the Survivalist* then goes after that person, they […]

Some the Survivalist*-thinking* virtues that the Idealists* should adopt (to the best of their ability)

the Survivalist* are disrespectful in one way. In another, they admire your assumed ability to stand up for yourself. Therefore, if they don’t think you’re a complete loser and a pushover, they will challenge your thinking, logic, and certainty, even if they were not an expert. They figure that if you know your stuff, […]

Why do the Survivalist* pick a fight with you to “keep you talking”?

the Survivalist* fall in love with your presence and sticking around. They assume you fall in love the same way; with their familiarity. They assume that if you haven’t fallen in love – or trust them yet, they just need to keep you around for a little while longer, and then you’ll know they’re […]

Turn the toxic love of the Survivalist* into a mutually beneficial deal.

Toxic love can feel very strong to the person feeling it. It can feel like “true love” because it borders on obsession. However, the object of toxic love rarely feels happy about it. In fact, being the object of toxic love can give you a trauma that is difficult to shake. You may fear loving […]

How to make a relationship with the Survivalist* and a Idealists* work?

In this context, the key difference between the way the Survivalist* and a Idealists* thinks is sex and romance. It is NOT REALISTIC to expect that the Survivalist* can fulfil a Idealists*’s sexual and romantic needs, even if they turn into a regular porn star meets sex coach and learn every […]

the Survivalist* Thinking narcissist counts success in friends and try to gain status to make more friends.

the Survivalist* counts success in love and friends, even if they have to fake it. If they feel they have to care for someone’s reputation, they want to create a facade of “they’re more loved than you” around someone they care about – either themselves or someone they feel sorry for. A Survivalist* […]

the Survivalist* need their family much more than their romantic partners.

the Survivalist* feel much more connected to their families than their romantic partners. The Idealists* feel differently. The Idealists* love their ultimate romantic partners (True Emotion Mirrors) even more than their own children, but they also allow their children to love their True Emotion Mirrors more than they expect their children to […]

the Survivalist* Thinking romance vs. The Cat Thinking romance.

the Survivalist* want to die for love. They delight in fighting duels. But the Idealists* wants a man who lives and gives explosive orgasms. Paraphrasing Marilyn Monroe’s Diamonds are Girls’ Best Friends for a rule of thumb, the Survivalist* want to suffer for love and for their lovers to suffer more. Type […]

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