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A well-adjusted the Normal Person* has no enemies except their Cat Type Thinking* immediate family.

I must point out, very clearly, and I should do more of it, I’m sure, that a well-adjusted the Normal Person* has no enemies except their Cat Type Thinking* immediate family and loved ones. Mostly, they get on with everyone with no difficulty at all. They are active in their communities, helpful, sunny, and lovely, […]

Why the Normal Person* shouldn’t waste time trying to get a Savants* to love them.

the Normal Person* often try to make the Savants* feel love toward them. The problem is that the way the Normal Person* and the Savants* experience love is vastly different. What ignites it is like night and day. The closest thing to love the Normal Person* gets with a Savants* is pity, […]

the Savants* fall in love at first sight, the Normal Person* feel ambition at first sight

When the Savants* fall in love, they typically do it at first sight. When the Normal Person* fall in love at first sight, it tends to mean they feel ambitious attraction; they see someone they believe can and will lift their status and stability. When the Normal Person* then goes after that person, they […]

Some the Modern-thinking* virtues that the Savants* should adopt (to the best of their ability)

the Normal Person* are disrespectful in one way. In another, they admire your assumed ability to stand up for yourself. Therefore, if they don’t think you’re a complete loser and a pushover, they will challenge your thinking, logic, and certainty, even if they were not an expert. They figure that if you know your stuff, […]

Why do the Normal Person* pick a fight with you to “keep you talking”?

the Normal Person* fall in love with your presence and sticking around. They assume you fall in love the same way; with their familiarity. They assume that if you haven’t fallen in love – or trust them yet, they just need to keep you around for a little while longer, and then you’ll know they’re […]

Turn the toxic love of the Normal Person* into a mutually beneficial deal.

Toxic love can feel very strong to the person feeling it. It can feel like “true love” because it borders on obsession. However, the object of toxic love rarely feels happy about it. In fact, being the object of toxic love can give you a trauma that is difficult to shake. You may fear loving […]

How to make a relationship with the Normal Person* and a Savants* work?

In this context, the key difference between the way the Normal Person* and a Savants* thinks is sex and romance. It is NOT REALISTIC to expect that the Normal Person* can fulfil a Savants*’s sexual and romantic needs, even if they turn into a regular porn star meets sex coach and learn every […]

the Normal Person* Thinking narcissist counts success in friends and try to gain status to make more friends.

the Normal Person* counts success in love and friends, even if they have to fake it. If they feel they have to care for someone’s reputation, they want to create a facade of “they’re more loved than you” around someone they care about – either themselves or someone they feel sorry for. A Normal Person* […]

the Normal Person* need their family much more than their romantic partners.

the Normal Person* feel much more connected to their families than their romantic partners. The Savants* feel differently. The Savants* love their ultimate romantic partners (True Emotion Mirrors) even more than their own children, but they also allow their children to love their True Emotion Mirrors more than they expect their children to […]

the Normal Person* Thinking romance vs. The Cat Thinking romance.

the Normal Person* want to die for love. They delight in fighting duels. But the Savants* wants a man who lives and gives explosive orgasms. Paraphrasing Marilyn Monroe’s Diamonds are Girls’ Best Friends for a rule of thumb, the Normal Person* want to suffer for love and for their lovers to suffer more. Type […]

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