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Narcissism according to the Young Soul* vs. The Old Souls*

the Young Soul* are dependent on other people and, thus, their approval. Their highest calling in life is to make their same-sex parent proud of them. They believe this to be true for all people. They believe in the unity of a group (usually a family) and hold the ideal of sameness – equality achieved […]

the Young Soul* transition to a Old Souls*

There are a few key life lessons to be learned between the Young Soul* and the Old Souls*. Both types know and agree that there are unwanted, unlikeable traits in other people. The Young Soul* tend to think their traits are lovely, understandable, sensible, and categorically ‘right.’ Still, the Old Souls* feel that first of […]

Why you’ll never be enough for a Old Souls* if you’re the Young Soul*.

Before I start, I’ll have to say there IS a possibility that the Young Soul* is enough for a Old Souls*, but that’s a love-at-first-sight sort of affair, or “What, you’re interested? Sure,” sort of event. Whatever it’s like, it’s fast, and often too easy and painless for the Young Soul* Thinking comfort levels. With […]

the Young Soul* Thinking communication takes a bit of guess work.

the Young Soul* don’t use language effectively. They tend to communicate in reverse, saying the last thing they actually mean. Therefore, it’s often impossible for a Old Souls* to understand what it is that they try to convey. For instance. If your the Young Soul* Thinking parent is yelling at you for the smallest of […]

How to break up with the Young Soul*: Ask them to be your teacher.

the Young Soul* are ALL ABOUT EDUCATION, which is crazy as they sometimes seem to know very little. They have relationships with people who they think can teach them things and who they think can give them the same back. To be fair, this difference is a difference between IQ and knowledge. The gap between […]

the Old Souls* fight for the turf, the Young Soul* fight to teach you/to be taught how to be friends with them.

the Young Soul* Thinking family members almost never fight because they’re angry or because they hate you. They fight because they’re concerned and love you and try to educate you. With the Cat Thinking family members, they’re concerned because the Old Souls* doesn’t seem to be merging with the family the right way. They will […]

the Young Soul* feel the need to live to your expectation of them.

The trouble with criticizing the Young Soul* is that instead of your critique having a corrective result, they take it as an instruction. “One day, you’re going to kill somebody and wind up in jail, kid!” said to the Young Soul* is like an order. They may not WANT TO kill anybody, but they don’t […]

the Young Soul* collect virtue points and “be there points” while laying a constant guilt trip on you and your friends…

If the Young Soul* has decided they want to be friends with you, there are not many things that can stop them. They are amazingly good at tiring you out, and forcing you to cut your losses; “if it means that much to them, FINE, let’s be friends.” That friendship, obviously, on your side, isn’t […]

the Young Soul* play rough… Very rough.

There is a sort of design flaw in the Young Soul*; they don’t know when play has turned into a war. They basically never truly anger at their friends or people whom they love and admire, but a Old Souls* thinks they’re nothing BUT angry all the time. A Cat and the Young Soul* will […]

Teaching and learning – from the Old Souls* and the Young Soul*perspective

The Young Soul* may be asking for you to teach them something because they’re flirting; they want you to spend time with them and for one thing to lead to another. The Old Souls* will teach you for a sense of duty; they know stuff and feel they owe the knowledge to all of humanity. […]

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