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The Survivalist* try to make you fall in love with attention.

Again a slightly different way of explaining the difference between the Keen and the Idealists* in their bonding strategies. The Survivalist* are quite easily coaxed away from “a hopeful” state with another person. If they cannot make a Idealists* fall in love with them with the attention they’re showing them (and they […]

Finding Freedom from the Survivalist*

Your True Emotion Mirror or your Lovers’ Choice Soulmate* will love you for your selfishness, not for your obedience. While this rule applies across the board, what the Survivalist* and the Idealists* consider “sexy selfishness” are opposite things. The Survivalist* want your selfishness hidden from the public but revealed to them, but […]

Clue: the Survivalist* are not NEARLY as aware of the Idealists* as the other way around.

One thing that you might need to know is that the Idealists* are ACUTELY aware of what the Survivalist* are, even without the definition. They suffer living with the Survivalist*, and are very aware that their thinking differs from that of their own, even if they cannot fully understand or explain the […]

the Idealists* love probing personal questions (directed at themselves and to ask them) but the Survivalist* have told them a thousand times not to ask any.

the Survivalist* don’t like people getting personal – not even on a date. They have a phobia of not being liked, and means they don’t want to answer questions that they think has a wrong answer to. It is true, in a sense, that even personal questions have wrong answers. They qualify you as […]

the Survivalist* don’t learn from non-friends.

the Survivalist* cannot trust a person who isn’t their parent or a close friend to teach them anything worth learning. This is why formal education doesn’t work on the Survivalist* very reliably at all. This is also the reason why the Survivalist* easily adopt bad ideas from friends. The Survivalist* are […]

“Telling the truth” by the Survivalist* Thinking definition

A Survivalist* doesn’t necessarily understand why any outsider has the right to ask for them to tell the truth. They also don’t think anyone would volunteer the truth in public, they believe the truth is reserved for very close friends, no matter what it is. A Survivalist* treats the information of their favorite […]

The way the Idealists* and the Survivalist* define who they are, and why the Idealists* is better.

While I won’t tell you NOT TO define yourself in the Survivalist* way, I’m going to say that the Idealists* way of doing this is better. The Survivalist* wants to be defined by someone else, right? They want someone they admire to make them into an image of themselves like god did. […]

the Idealists*; how to make your the Survivalist* Thinking parents let go of you.

If you’re not too angry with your parents’ need to keep you contained yet, this post has reached you in time. You may feel your parent doesn’t trust you and is trying to control your choices and guide you even though you’re already an adult and (mostly) self-sustained. You might find this irritating. Fear not. […]

Whatever the Survivalist* do, they want to get closer to you.

Here’s the master key to the Survivalist* Thinking: Whatever they are doing besides ignoring a complete stranger, they want to get closer and make friends with the person they’re paying attention to any more than the absolute minimum. The same isn’t true for the Idealists*; there’s a lot more variety in their needs […]

Why the Idealists* don’t like the Survivalist* willingness to adapt to anything.

the Survivalist* will adapt to almost anyone and their wishes if that’ll get them a new friend. The Idealists* are flexible and open-minded up to a point, but their personality and personal values remain unchanged in new relationships. The Survivalist*, when not fully accepted into any group yet, will remain in a […]

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