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How to offend the Survivalist*?

There are times when you might have a genuine need to offend the Survivalist*. Anything that a Idealists* could think offensive is really water off a duck’s back to the Survivalist*. They don’t GIVE A FUCK about how selfish you think they are, how “tough” or “uncivilized” you think they are… And […]

When the Survivalist* finds the limit to how much she or he is loved.

the Survivalist* are inherently young souls. They are, much like youngsters often are, much loved by everybody, without them really having to do much to earn it. That’s the beauty of being a child. Now, some of these kiddos grow up to their spiritual teen years and notice that they still have a lot […]

The disgruntled “do something about this” tone of voice that the Survivalist* keep misinterpreting.

There is a particular tone of voice that the Survivalist* keep misinterpreting: The “do something about this” -tone of voice. Although they correctly interpret that part of it, they keep missing WHAT needs to be changed. The Survivalist* may interpret everything said in this tone as the same way, when the thing that […]

To turn the Survivalist* thinker off you, you must prevent them from using you to make themselves look good

the Survivalist* love others for and by making each other look good in the eyes of an outside observer. They don’t care much about what’s going on internally as long as you look like the Kennedys on the outside. (The Kennedys are a perfect example of the Survivalist* family, too. They lobotomized the […]

How can it be a good thing for the Survivalist* to not get what they want?

Nowhere have I said that the Survivalist* cannot get what they want; I have said they should never get to have the Idealists* play the role of their lover or best friends. That’s all. For one thing, a Idealists* person is inherently wrong for the Survivalist* person, and vice versa, and […]

How by the Survivalist* logic, they can be your friend or True Emotion Mirror while you absolutely disagree.

The Survivalist* is a little bit naive in some ways. They think they can simply declare themselves as another person’s friend, girlfriend or boyfriend, True Emotion Mirror or Valentine, and simply argue the fact to be so, even if you absolutely disagreed, laughed at them, or tried to demonstrate to them how you couldn’t […]

When you help the Survivalist* out, but ask nothing in return, you’ll make them nervous.

the Survivalist* bond through the help they give and receive in their relationships, both romantic and platonic alike. They share their weaknesses and incompetence in their bid to find areas that need friends and family to patch up on, “I don’t know how to do my taxes, but I can mow your lawn for […]

Survivalist* and the Idealists*

  This is the most important part of all Free Spirit Theories but not necessarily the most interesting one. The Idealists* and the Survivalist* are a part of everything I write. Without understanding the differentiation, it is quite impossible to understand the rest correctly. These two thinking types divide people in two groups. […]

the Survivalist* critique means they want to fix it for you.

There is a major difference between the Idealists* and the Survivalist* in how they give and receive criticism. When the Survivalist* says you can’t do something, they’re offering their help: “Look, honey, you can’t do your hair.” The sentence should continue: “Let me do your hair for you, honey. No need for […]

How did the Survivalist* get such a massive ego?

This doesn’t apply to all the Survivalist*people, but it definitely applies to the ambitious variety; the ones who LOVE to get compliments and opportunities from the Idealists* of some status or wealth. The way it works is that the Survivalist* goes fishing for compliments, acknowledgment, attention, and favors from an individual they […]

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