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Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
9:54 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Breaking Patterns, Life Transitions, Old Souls*, Thinker Type, Young Soul*
the Young Soul* experience pressure to change and conform (to relationship demands) differently from the Old Souls*. The Old Souls* are what they are, and giving them time to adjust to something won’t make them HAPPIER about it, it simply makes them submit to a fate that they cannot change. This will potentially lead to […]
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Sunday, April 2nd, 2023 at
7:57 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Breaking Patterns, Life Transitions
Here’s the thing: The TRUTH doesn’t change. Opinions change, the truth does not. Good children have always been raised with the same method: A balance of permissiveness and discipline. Good adulthood has always been lived the same way: A balance of fun and responsibility for others. If you want a solid base for your life, […]
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Friday, February 17th, 2023 at
3:00 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Breaking Patterns, Life Transitions, Old Souls*, Thinker Type, warnings
When the Old Souls* “change” what is actually happening is that as they become more self-aware, they’ll make that awareness seen on the outside. The Old Souls* like to show everything that they are at once, and they can drop previous habits and expectations that they felt raised into and pressured into, rather than what […]
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Tuesday, January 3rd, 2023 at
12:22 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Breaking Patterns, Life Transitions
Here’s the mathematics in relationships: If you are rejected by a person who thinks you’re not what they want, but you’re not willing to do the work to reach their level, either you think they’re not good enough for you or they’re right, and you’re not good enough for them. If you’re in love with […]
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Sunday, January 1st, 2023 at
6:05 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Abuse, Breaking Patterns, Life Transitions
OK. Here he/she is, ready to make a change, ready to be the person you want them to be. Should you take them back? Consider this. Are they the kind of person who thinks relationships are exciting because they get to do whatever they like with you and still be forgiven and loved? This comes […]
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Thursday, December 29th, 2022 at
7:28 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Breaking Patterns, Life Transitions
NO, YOU CANNOT. You can get 96% there, and they’ll still hate you for the 4% you will never be. You won’t be happy; they won’t be happy. You may LOOK happy, but you won’t be. Neither one of you. This has never worked, and you aren’t the one-in-a-80-billion genius you need to be to […]
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Thursday, November 25th, 2021 at
11:42 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Breaking Patterns, Life Transitions, Narcissism, Old Souls*, Personal, Thinker Type, Young Soul*
As I describe the Old Souls* as the people who don’t wish to force change on anyone else, you might find it interesting to realize that it is a Old Souls* who will eventually force change. See, they like who they are, while the Young Soul* think others like who they (the Young Soul*) are. […]
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Thursday, September 9th, 2021 at
10:02 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Arguing, Breaking Patterns, Life Transitions
In case you don’t know, being right is not a competition in the sense that you can’t abandon your team if you’re losing a fight. You are PERFECTLY permitted to change sides if you find the opponent’s arguments more compelling – and you can bring your friends, too. The point of most arguing is not […]
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Sunday, February 23rd, 2020 at
3:45 am in Australia - Last edit on
February 6, 2024 Tags: Breaking Patterns, Ego, Life Transitions, Money and Business, Vos
Yes, I understand! The idea of a healthy false ego is a contradiction in terms! It’s similar to terms like consensual rape or giving a guilty plea while maintaining innocence. Yet, sometimes, contradictions can work as a beautiful combination of things that shouldn’t exist in the same room, like pink and green. Building a healthy […]
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Tuesday, July 31st, 2018 at
4:43 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Breaking Patterns, Life Transitions
The two different kinds of thinkers, the Young Soul* and the Old Souls*, each want to protect different things. The Young Soul* want to protect the relationship: “To rescue this relationship, one of us (the odd one out) needs to change and become like others.” The Old Souls* see the individual being more important: “To […]
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