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Thursday, April 22nd, 2021 at
12:19 pm in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: (TrEmoR) Fears, Breakup and Divorce, Internet, signs
I fear this post is a bit of a rinse and repeat, but spirit told me to. There are strategies people use to kinda warn their partner that they are about to take off. This is not necessarily a “let’s talk” kind of a warning, but more like “don’t be terribly surprised when I tell […]
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Tuesday, September 8th, 2020 at
5:55 pm in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Breakup and Divorce, Thinker Type, Survivalist*
To explain the Survivalist* way of breaking up, I also have to explain a lot of the Idealists* mindset related to their relationships with the Survivalist*. Typically, the Survivalist* mate for life. There are situations, however, where they may completely turn around and change their alliance on the spot. While the […]
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Thursday, June 25th, 2020 at
5:08 pm in Australia - Last edit on
March 12, 2025 Tags: Breakup and Divorce, Thinker Type
It may be very difficult for a Idealist* to drive the message home to the Survivalist* that the relationship is over. It’s actually not that difficult, in the end… It’s just that the Idealists* don’t like to be rude, cold, or uncaring about their breakups, therefore, everything that the Survivalist* understands […]
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Thursday, June 25th, 2020 at
4:14 pm in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: (TrEmoR) Fears, Breakup and Divorce, Idealists*, Thinker Type, Survivalist*
Now, forgive me for the tone. I am a Idealists* myself. I’ve struggled with my relationships with the Survivalist* my entire life, and my patience with them has always been… Short. I’ve spent the last 10 years of my life trying to understand how everything I say to the Survivalist* somehow turns […]
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Monday, September 10th, 2018 at
10:00 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Breakup and Divorce
Sex is a natural part of a love relationship. In fact, sex is the only thing that turns a friendship into a romantic relationship. THE ONLY THING. If there is no sex in a relationship, it means it is a partnership of some kind, at best, a friendship. Therefore, breaking up a relationship on the […]
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Tuesday, February 13th, 2018 at
10:07 pm in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: (TrEmoR) Fears, Breakup and Divorce
Women are constantly reminded to take care of themselves for a change, to think about themselves first, take care of mommy first, but do men ever get to be selfish or choose for themselves first? I say that not very often. I am also here to remind you guys that maybe you should take that […]
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Saturday, February 10th, 2018 at
2:48 pm in Australia - Last edit on
August 26, 2024 Tags: (TrEmoR) Fears, Breakup and Divorce, Compromise, Dating
Dating after divorce is a bit different than what it was the last time you did it. You think all these young kids are doing it so differently. But you know what? You’re not going to be dating those kids (most likely), you’ll still be dating people about the same age as you are. If […]
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Thursday, December 21st, 2017 at
7:39 pm in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Breakup and Divorce
The Survivalist* and the Idealists* understand the process of breaking up VERY differently. (It’s okay if you don’t know the terms yet, you’ll pick it up soon.) The Survivalist* assume their former partner will “see the relationship to the end” by arranging their life post break up, and if their partner (the […]
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Thursday, November 9th, 2017 at
8:58 pm in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Breakup and Divorce, Thinker Type, Survivalist*
A Survivalist* doesn’t expect to be happy in life. They expect to be safe and sound, but they are not counting on being happy, and they can live with not being happy. An Idealist*, on the other hand, wants happiness, and they will spend a lifetime longing for happiness, or in the pursuit […]
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Thursday, November 9th, 2017 at
8:58 pm in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: (TrEmoR) Fears, Breakup and Divorce, Embracing Vulnerability, Infidelity, trust, Vulnerability
When a Idealists* talks about their private life, they do not mean it is a specific sign of trust, more to the point, if they do not, that is a severe sign of mistrust. This often drives the Idealists* and the Survivalist* together, because the Survivalist* believes that the Idealists* […]
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