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Some signs of a pending breakup

I fear this post is a bit of a rinse and repeat, but spirit told me to. There are strategies people use to kinda warn their partner that they are about to take off. This is not necessarily a “let’s talk” kind of a warning, but more like “don’t be terribly surprised when I tell […]

the Young Soul* rarely break up, but when they do, they vanish

To explain the Young Soul* way of breaking up, I also have to explain a lot of the Old Souls* mindset related to their relationships with the Young Soul*. Typically, the Young Soul* mate for life. There are situations, however, where they may completely turn around and change their alliance on the spot. While the […]

How to break up with the Young Soul* effectively?

It may be very difficult for a Old Soul* to drive the message home to the Young Soul* that the relationship is over. It’s actually not that difficult, in the end… It’s just that the Old Souls* don’t like to be rude, cold, or uncaring about their breakups, therefore, everything that the Young Soul* understands […]

the Old Souls* breakup attempt that turns into a proposal in the Young Soul* mind

Now, forgive me for the tone. I am a Old Souls* myself. I’ve struggled with my relationships with the Young Soul* my entire life, and my patience with them has always been… Short. I’ve spent the last 10 years of my life trying to understand how everything I say to the Young Soul* somehow turns […]

Men should feel OK about breaking up due to sexual incompatibility, too

Sex is a natural part of a love relationship. In fact, sex is the only thing that turns a friendship into a romantic relationship. THE ONLY THING. If there is no sex in a relationship, it means it is a partnership of some kind, at best, a friendship. Therefore, breaking up a relationship on the […]

After a divorce or a breakup, it’s time for a man to get selfish!

Women are constantly reminded to take care of themselves for a change, to think about themselves first, take care of mommy first, but do men ever get to be selfish or choose for themselves first? I say that not very often. I am also here to remind you guys that maybe you should take that […]

Dating after divorce – You’re too old for another compromise, man

Dating after divorce is a bit different than what it was the last time you did it. You think all these young kids are doing it so differently. But you know what? You’re not going to be dating those kids (most likely), you’ll still be dating people about the same age as you are. If […]

Two different break up styles

The Young Soul* and the Old Souls* understand the process of breaking up VERY differently. (It’s okay if you don’t know the terms yet, you’ll pick it up soon.) The Young Soul* assume their former partner will “see the relationship to the end” by arranging their life post break up, and if their partner (the […]

Breaking up with the Young Soul*: “I am unhappy. :((“

A the Young Soul* doesn’t expect to be happy in life. They expect to be safe and sound, but they are not counting on being happy, and they can live with not being happy. A the Old Souls*, on the other hand, wants happiness, and they will spend a lifetime longing for happiness, or in […]

Confession of infidelity: a sign of trust or a breakup attempt?

When a Old Souls* talks about their private life, they do not mean it is a specific sign of trust, more to the point, if they do not, that is a severe sign of mistrust. This often drives the Old Souls* and the Young Soul* together, because the Young Soul* believes that the Old Souls* […]

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