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I don’t know what he wants, should I still break up with my current partner?

This question is asked often enough to make me gasp… There’s a saying I heard once that describes this situation: “A woman is like a monkey; she will never let go of a branch until she has a hold of another branch.” Now, the question whether you should leave your current partner if you are […]

Breaking the breakup – healing major relationship problems

There are two types of thinkers. The Savants* and the Normal Person*. The Savants* are always ready to talk about their emotions, the Normal Person* need a little warm up by talking nonsense for a while. This doesn’t sound like a major issue, but it does relate to every communication problem we ever […]

How can some people take a break up (from a True Emotion Mirror) so easily?

First, I have to tell you that there is a HUGE difference between being separated by force and being left by the other Mirror’s choice. Destination Soulmates will always want nothing but the other one’s happiness more than anything, and therefore, if their True Emotion Mirror is happier with someone else, the people who love […]

Break up: the Normal Person* vs. The Savants*

I have said previously, that a break up is a concept that the Normal Person* do not understand, but they do… It’s just that their breakup method is so different to a Savants*, that a Savants* may not have understood that a break up was happening or how to express a break up […]

How to break up when she doesn’t want to

If you read my previous post, you will know what I am talking about, if not, please read it first to get the gist of it, and we’ll pick up from there. If this video doesn’t solve your problem, move to the text below it. This is by far an easier approach, but might not […]

How to deal with the emotions of divorce

If you were the one who was left: The galore of emotions that are associated with the event of being left are difficult to put in order and deal with, that goes without saying. Disbelief, hurt, shame, fear, betrayal, nostalgia, loss, love, misunderstanding, understanding, respect, disrespect, anger, frustration… All of these and more emotions are […]

Why the concept of divorce protects true love.

It didn’t take us long to decide to ban the entire idea of no divorce, but to put divorce on a pedestal; this lovely thing was the very thing that made our commitment valuable, sacred and pure; freedom. The thought of divorce was inconceivable, yet an absolute necessity to the sanctity of this marriage.

Runner – Chaser dynamic before the break up

Before discussing anything about running and chasing dynamics between True Emotion Mirrors , I must mention that there are various reasons why people run from a relationship even in the case of real True Emotion Mirror -relationships. Sometimes, also, what looks to one half like running is actually not running at all. In this case, […]