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Moral selfishness when it comes to cheating and sleeping with someone else’s spouse

I am not a big fan of cheating. Personally, I want things clean and out in the open, but there are also other factors to consider. I tend to say: “He’s married, but he’s not THAT married.” Adult people have made commitments to people who are not truly in love with them since marriage was […]

Women who are attracted to cheating men

There is absolutely nothing wrong with women who are attracted to cheating men. They respond to their natural polygynous leaning, which monogamous societies suppress. There is also nothing wrong with a cheating man, nothing at all, just the culture we live in has made him a pariah. That is not to say that all women […]

Q&A; Why do I always wind up cheating on my girlfriend with her best friend?

If you find it a turn on that you are sleeping with your girlfriend’s best friend, it is definitely a sign of a natural polygynist man. If you were simply cheating on your girlfriend with whomever, that would be potentially different, but because it is the best friend that turns you on, this is definitely […]

It is okay to blame yourself if your partner is cheating

The way we empower women these days is to repeat a mantra of “it’s never your fault if someone treats you badly”, and thus the sign of a strong woman is one that never blames herself for anything, always puts her own needs first and doesn’t let people boss her around. Sounds good, doesn’t it? […]

How to stop your boyfriend from cheating

Sorry for the provoking heading, but I thought it tells what this post is about. This also applies to girlfriends as well aaand should not be as manipulative as the heading suggests. *yak* I have never had a problem with cheating boyfriends, as I’ve never had one. There is two reasons for it: A) I […]