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The purpose of communication is to make things better, not to find the person to blame.

There are people who communicate in order to find the scape goat. The person to blame. The real reason for communication is to find out what was and was not intended to be said, and how everyone feels in any given situation. It is NOT EASY to know what people feel and see from their […]

the Dog Type Thinker Thinking communication takes a bit of guess work.

the Dog Type Thinker don’t use language effectively. They tend to communicate in reverse, saying the last thing they actually mean. Therefore, it’s often impossible for a Cat Type Thinkers to understand what it is that they try to convey. For instance. If your the Dog Type Thinker Thinking parent is yelling at you for […]

Is communication going to solve all your relationship problems? No. Sometimes it makes matters worse.

One would assume that explaining what you need from people is simple enough to do. However, the truth is that some people see the world from such opposite perspectives that explaining a simple thing may take you a lifetime, and it’s simply not worth the effort. Personally, I spent 25 of my adult years trying […]

The importance of communication, why cold is not necessarily cold

The player. Envision, please. Can you see him? He blocks his emotions away from others because he is too sensitive to everything around him. He plays because he needs love so much, or has convinced himself that his romanticism is wasted and that it would be difficult to find a girl who’d actually love him […]

Communication: Helping a body-focused person talk about feelings

We all want to be understood. We need our emotions to be acknowledged, but sometimes no matter how much time you spend talking about your feelings, they seem to go unnoticed. However, some of us use language that comes out as an accusation rather than a report, and some understand reports of emotions as accusations. […]

Male- and Female communication styles; what are we missing?

Although generally speaking, the stereotypical naming of these two communication styles helps you understand what kind of a personality we are talking about, these styles are not gender specific. Men can be fethe Cat Type Thinkers as well as women can be the Cat Type Thinkers, but for the purpose of underlining the differences in […]