The heart of it all: It’s a competition in being kind and charming – not in being snooty
The better word for “nice” is to be “a good” person, but that is sometimes misinterpreted. Sometimes, people think “being a good person” means being “above others,” “being privileged,” or “being untouchable.” Being charming, polite, and gentile is none of those things; it’s about being kind to others. There are people in the ‘circles’ who […] |