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You keep giving them compliments but they are not returning any, or reacting to you the way you expect them to.

Equals exchange compliments. A world-class guitarist to another. Full of praise. But a world-class guitarist is not going to get excited about your nail art no matter how much you admire his luscious hair. A philosopher isn’t going to get excited about your beautiful eyes alone. A woman with a PhD will not get all […]

My True Emotion Mirror is dodging all of my compliments… Whyyy?

There might be a few reasons, but this is a taroty post. In your case, what it is is that your compliment isn’t sized properly. You have to try smaller compliments or bigger compliments. It’s not that they’re picky; it’s more that they’re traumatized. Maybe they’re not used to honest love. Maybe their parents weren’t […]

The art of ass kissing – paying real compliments that matter

The easiest two ways to make a person like you is to a) agree with them a lot and b) paying compliments to them. However, both can backfire a bit, but this post is mostly about paying people compliments. When making friends in general, the idea is to make people like your company. They must […]

Whenever someone is fishing for compliments they’re a Hidden Positive

A lot of people feel they want to boost someone’s self-confidence when given the opportunity. However, this can prove too costly in some cases. Whenever you feel like a compliment is being dragged or guilted, coerced out of you, don’t do it! It means too much for the person. The Hidden Positive people feel that […]

The hidden sexism in compliments to men

There are certain things that are a reoccurring phenomenon in this world. It happens every day, it is, actually, a constant state of being, the love of a parent of their own child. It is a very common thing to see. And yet, we consider a mother who loves her children to be the norm. That is […]