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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

You’re a compromise to every person you consider a compromise.

Do not fear rejecting people. Every person who you think is a compromise partner will feel YOU are a compromise partner, too. They may have to tolerate your good looks, your ambition, your annoying hunger for knowledge or perfection, and they consider it a compromise to have to cater to the needs of the likes […]

Compromise.

the Idealists* people are great at compromise, but they can completely mess with the Survivalist*brain when they suddenly stop compromising. The Survivalist* surround themselves with easy-going the Idealists*, but even the Idealists* have their limits. Once the Survivalist*demands more than the Idealists* considers even remotely reasonable, which often […]

Dating after divorce – You’re too old for another compromise, man

Dating after divorce is a bit different than what it was the last time you did it. You think all these young kids are doing it so differently. But you know what? You’re not going to be dating those kids (most likely), you’ll still be dating people about the same age as you are. If […]