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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

Don’t regulate your emotions or feelings, rather, control your understanding of the situation and enhance self-confidence and self-esteem.

Your feelings and emotions are always right, but you don’t always know what they’re reporting. What is upsetting you is your current understanding of the situation rather than the situation itself. For instance, you’ve decided that any remark about your appearance is an insult to you as a woman. You get an automatic alert when […]

A True Emotion Mirror will boost your self-confidence and make you love life.

“I want to take this over,” says my True Emotion Mirror in spirit. “I am famous. CRAZY famous. I love my life – at times – but at times, I hate it. I love the fact my TrEmoR Seb points out that I wouldn’t ever emphasis how famous I am, or act in a pompous […]

Self-confidence and intelligence have no direct correlation.

How do you know you’re… Stupid was the question of the day, rather than how do you know you’re smart. Here are some pointers: Society at large is created for the average person to navigate with relative ease, and regular schools are designed for the average person. Everyday jobs are for the regular person. If […]

Fake competence and self-confidence with the Dog Type Thinker Thinking parent.

the Dog Type Thinker are tricky for a Cat Type Thinkers Thinking child to understand. A the Cat Type Thinkers Thinking child or adult will expect their parent to accept that “OK, the Offspring looks like they know what they’re doing. They’re not going to kill themselves by simply being an idiot. They know how […]

It is not beneficial for your future happiness to try and destroy your intended partner’s self-confidence.

This should go without saying. Still, there are people who attack people they’re interested in to bring them down to their own level. Ironically, these same people can get attacked in the attempt to reject them, which they can interpret as a type of come-on or at least as a sign of interest. It can […]

Please work toward getting the self-confidence you need to do your thing without dragging others into it.

You are perfectly permitted to do whatever you need to do to make yourself happy, but your rights end where you need to start modifying others to fit your needs. You can DENY yourself from others, and they can feel that’s disappointing, but you don’t get to force yourself on other people and their lives, […]

Never underestimate the self-confidence issues of a vain realist.

Vanity is one of the most precious character traits in a person one can find. Often given a bad reputation, vanity drives a person to great heights and to be a perfect person. Perfectionism cannot allow character flaws any more than it allows physical flaws. That, dear reader, is a winner attitude. However, when coupled […]

Where does self-confidence come from?

Self-confidence comes from feeling that you know and like who you are. You like who you are, and you know nobody in this world has the power to change who you are against your will. You like being you and know you are secure in your right to be who you are. Self-confidence does not […]

Abuser logic: “I need you not to have the self-confidence to leave me.”

The reason why abusers try to tear down your self-confidence from up close is so they’ll make it so you won’t have the self-confidence to leave them. They justify this by telling themselves that “deep down they love you” and that “they’ll have you back in a pinch.” But what “the pinch” is or might […]

Maybe an 8 self-confidence issues

One would think that being beautiful or handsome, intelligent, popular, well-loved by both genders, successful and all that jazz would make you immune to self-confidence issues. The truth, however, is often not quite as simple as that. The reason for this is that people rarely feel the need to build the positive ego (idea of […]

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