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The purpose of communication is to make things better, not to find the person to blame.

There are people who communicate in order to find the scape goat. The person to blame. The real reason for communication is to find out what was and was not intended to be said, and how everyone feels in any given situation. It is NOT EASY to know what people feel and see from their […]

How much awareness of your sexuality is fun, and how much of it just spoils the surprise?

There is the problem of consent. It’s all playing it quite safe, even too safe. We should aim for a society that accepts a wound or two in grown-up people rather than trying to molly-coddle everyone into a ball of cotton wool for safe protection at all times. We kinda like things rough at times, […]

the Dog Type Thinker Thinking communication takes a bit of guess work.

the Dog Type Thinker don’t use language effectively. They tend to communicate in reverse, saying the last thing they actually mean. Therefore, it’s often impossible for a Cat Type Thinkers to understand what it is that they try to convey. For instance. If your the Dog Type Thinker Thinking parent is yelling at you for […]

Who you want to be is more important to your authenticity than what people think you are or should be.

Authenticity is not an easy thing to tackle, especially if you’ve played along a bit too long. Still, I insist, that who you wish to be is far more important metric to who you authentically are than what you are thought to be let alone expected to be. Let’s use a negative example on this […]

True Emotion Mirrors, Authenticity, and Unconditional Love

True Emotion Mirrors are, to each other, people who, in their authentic state, are everything they love about other people. Once a person truly liberates oneself from social norms and expectations, they are exactly what their counterpart will love. Mind you, a person may have to try and control their thrive for perfectionism to fit […]

Authenticity and appropriateness; when are you being “authentic” and when are you just being an ass.

My “authenticity” may sound pretentious to you. In my everyday communication, I swear and use “language”. When I’m writing my posts and when I’m doing my YouTube videos, I still use “language”. I also have no intention of stopping. I love swearing, I absolutely love it – it’s weird. That said, these channels are mine, […]

Is communication going to solve all your relationship problems? No. Sometimes it makes matters worse.

One would assume that explaining what you need from people is simple enough to do. However, the truth is that some people see the world from such opposite perspectives that explaining a simple thing may take you a lifetime, and it’s simply not worth the effort. Personally, I spent 25 of my adult years trying […]

Awakening to Oneself; Stages of Spiritual Awareness

The biggest sin: To wait to be loved before doing anything nice for that person. “If you don’t love me, I’ll take advantage of you. Until you love me, I’ll be shit to you.” So many people think this way. “Payment first” kinda idea. If you think this way, you are what is wrong with […]

Importance of Authenticity

I often offer myself and my guys as an example of “authenticity”. We are a perfect example but we are not the perfect template. We are also not an example of perfection. An example is not to be confused with a model or an instruction, or a shared ideal. Examples are rarely meant to be […]

The importance of communication, why cold is not necessarily cold

The player. Envision, please. Can you see him? He blocks his emotions away from others because he is too sensitive to everything around him. He plays because he needs love so much, or has convinced himself that his romanticism is wasted and that it would be difficult to find a girl who’d actually love him […]

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