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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

Scam (narcissistic abuse) – sympathy, flattery, promises of great things later if you do this now – no action, no reward.

How do you know somebody is scamming you in one way or another? You are being strung by a bright future that never seems to come. Great promises, no delivery… Usually not even on the small things. The most hooking aspect is the sympathy and flattery; if only you were good enough; “I believe in […]

“Strong female character” doesn’t mean physical strength

One of my pet peeves in this world is Hollywood’s idea of what “a strong female character” means. They tend to take a male role and replace the actor with a woman. What the phrase means is not about physical strength,  it means a strong characterisation of a female; strong, good writing about a woman’s […]

Love takes courage. (How much are you allowed as a man?)

Many men tend to react to the fear of doing the wrong thing by a woman by letting her take the lead. Most women don’t like being in complete charge, however. It’s a little like being in a relationship with your smartphone, right? A little pushback is nice. Having said that, a lot of men […]

What you imagine another person will feel about your action is how they feel. Focus on your actual intent.

Imagine approaching a dog and thinking, “Oh, he’s going to escape because I’m going to grab it and lock it into a grate…” It is important for animals—including us—to be aware of each other’s intent in our interactions. Most of the time, we don’t have much of an intent in mind. We just do things […]

Learn to spar – test your strength against a worthy rival.

Most smart people protect their own idea of their high IQ by avoiding conversations with other smart people, or overpowering others’ opinions with strong opinions and loud voice, as to not be revealed to one’s own lacks in intelligence. That’s stupid. Learn to test your attractiveness, your charm, your talents, and your smarts… Whatever you […]

Fool’s Courage, Moron’s Knowledge, Conclusions of the half-brained

You remember the saying “blind leading the blind”? There’s also a situation, where blind leads the seeing – into a bad decision. The way this happens, is that when one person insists that truth is as they see it, and a wise man understands how sometimes you cannot see a danger or a situation correctly […]

Psychics; overcoming the issue of asking for money

In the olden days, people with the power to converse with the spirit world and the gods were regarded as the most important people in the community. If there was one thing that was certain it was that if you were able to help people deal with their mortal life, they would make sure you […]

TLOTTW:Overcoming the fear of poverty

“The key to a happy life – You can get past financial scarcity now and become rich in an instant if you understand this lesson. “I finally realized there’s something inside of us more than our limits, especially around this thing called money that I had let terrorize me for all these years… Do it, […]

Overcoming the True Mirror fear phase

The fear responses are sometimes valid warnings of our True Mirror bolting out if we move too fast, too boldly or carelessly, but it is important to tell the difference between healthy, wise caution and absolute terror and succumbing to fear. There’s plenty to lose, so each ‘move’ must be considered carefully, not in the head, but in the heart.