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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

Who is in denial?

Back in the day when I was still hanging out in the Twin Flame circles (online) I noticed a very toxic trend among the women who identified as “a Twin Flame.” The problem Twin Flames tend to share is that their Twin Flame has taken a runner and doesn’t want anything to do with their […]

Are they brave or in denial and too afraid to see the ugly truth?

Sometimes people seem brave… but is that person a fool or a hero? Are they fearless or naive and stupid? Are they speeding down a windy road with their eyes closed because they’re brave and psychic or just a simple  idiot? You know where my money is bet.  

What should you do when someone lives in a bubble of deep denial of realities?

In short, Leave them in it. Don’t give them attention for being idiots. Just console yourself with the pleasurable thought that if they keep living their lives by those rules, they’ll soon get hurt badly, and that’ll be funny. 😀 If they manage to coax others into that bubble, then maybe that is just the […]

True Emotion Mirror denial; is it you or them who refuses to see the truth?

There is clearly a True Emotion Mirror denial phase that can be identified in the way most True Emotion Mirrors interact. Denial is a state where you simply blind yourself from the truth because you do not want to see it the way that it is. Now, all you True Emotion Mirror chasers must face […]

Letting go of people easier by love, not by self-denial

You know how we try to do it… When we feel our love isn’t welcome, we start fighting against ourselves and the love we feel and we try to talk ourselves out of loving the other person as much as we do… If this is a half-ready True Emotion Mirror bond, it is important for […]

What is to ‘deny’ something or to ‘be in denial’ or do something ‘subconsciously’

I remember, when I was rather young, reading a sentence in some magazine: “ALL women are bisexual” it said. It was just an opinion piece “from the readers”, but nonetheless, it left me wondering. “If that is true, I am completely in denial,” I said to myself “because I feel no attraction to women.” I […]

Denial, humility, true love, dreams, and ego

It is beyond frustrating to try and reject someone who doesn’t seem to be getting the message. No matter how much you try to insult them or hurt their feelings to drive them away from you, they find a way to interpret what you say or do as a sign of undying, ultimate, height of […]

Self-denial is about telling yourself no to something you really want

When people tell you that you’re so full of self-denial, it sounds like an insult, doesn’t it? But in reality, it’s actually telling you that you should take more liberties for yourself than what you’ve taken in the past. They are telling you to say “yes” to the things you want to do, but have […]

The rejection and denial of casual sex between True Emotion Mirrors

I can say I am always GOBSMACKED to hear reactions such as that from men. Women, I understand… From my perspective, but they probably don’t mean what I suppose they mean, initially. Coming from a very sexually liberated country, all sexual oppression and judging people for the number of partners they’ve had or something similar […]