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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

Which order do you want things; sex or romance first?

And no, not everyone wants them in the same order. Not a gender thing, either. This is a personality thing. There are people who don’t feel sexually attracted to anyone before they have a romantic connection. Others don’t want anything to do with romance until they’ve found a sexual connection – and acted upon it, […]

The Law of the Free Spirit: the mind-control protection switch.

I think one of our greatest fears in life is the fear of mind control. I’ve actually started to fear the fact we can’t be, not even when your grandmother is dying, and you can’t think of the obvious thing: “Call an ambulance!” I have concluded that this is what happens when your friends or […]

They don’t get to change you in order to make money out of you.

the Young Soul* think that the Elder Souls* thrive for perfection in order to be loved. In fact, we do the opposite. We try NOT TO be so ambitious so that we’d be accepted. Not loved, but accepted. We know the difference between love and acceptance very clearly. Just because you accept someone’s presence doesn’t […]

Not everything has to be a certain success in order to be worth a try.

Let that sink in.

You don’t need to be an obedient person in order to be a good one… And definitely not in order to be the smart or perfect one.

No sane person wants to be forced into doing something they find unpleasant, unnatural, or painful. Not one. No sane person wants to force another person to do anything they find unpleasant, unnatural, or painful. There are, however, a lot of people, who are not all entirely sane, who want to force others to do […]

You don’t need to be the same as in order to be loved, respected, and accepted.

Black people don’t need to turn white for them to be loved, respected, and accepted by the white. Trans women don’t need to turn into actual women in order to be loved, respected, and accepted. Transmen don’t need to turn into actual men in order to be loved, respected, and accepted. Sameness thinking is toxic. […]

the Young Soul* like to PROVOKE YOU in order to MAKE FRIENDS.

The Young Soul* and the Elder Souls* make friends very differently. The Young Soul* argue to MAKE friends, the Elder Souls* argue to BREAK friendships (and conversations). Let me first tell you that I USED TO get provoked SO EASILY into arguments. I’d spend days online fuming and arguing with people who I knew would […]

Ever so slight warning is in order.

You know what… This is a bit of a warning that you’ve gotten yourself involved with a romantic. While this sounds like a nice thing, there are thorns in that rose. Romantics tend to want a relationship so badly, that they’ll take every opportunity to find their true lover – even among people who they […]

You don’t have to be a good person in order to be with your True Emotion Mirror

(This also applies to Twin Flames, despite the fact the teachers would disagree.) You are the perfect half of your True Emotion Mirror. This doesn’t mean you are a perfect person or even a good person. You can be the worst person in history and still have a True Emotion Mirror, or, if you want […]

How to balance Structure and Free Flow?

Many people when they become spiritual, they kind of lose control a little. They start following every possible shiny (spiritual) thing and whim and might get diagnosed as bipolar. Spiritual people are somewhat allergic to control and structure and feel that “authentic” is this free-flowing… Chaos, really. However, our need to create structures and rules […]

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