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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

Don’t regulate your emotions or feelings, rather, control your understanding of the situation and enhance self-confidence and self-esteem.

Your feelings and emotions are always right, but you don’t always know what they’re reporting. What is upsetting you is your current understanding of the situation rather than the situation itself. For instance, you’ve decided that any remark about your appearance is an insult to you as a woman. You get an automatic alert when […]

A True Emotion Mirror will boost your self-confidence and make you love life.

“I want to take this over,” says my True Emotion Mirror in spirit. “I am famous. CRAZY famous. I love my life – at times – but at times, I hate it. I love the fact my TrEmoR Seb points out that I wouldn’t ever emphasis how famous I am, or act in a pompous […]

Never again not notice how gracefully men put themselves down to elevate the female ego…

…and make them stop. 😀 The worst thing you can do to a person is to build them a false ego. It is ironically nearly always done with love, out of love, but never out of respect. Men are wonderful. They bend over backward to make women feel like they’re worthy and capable. And often, […]

Sign of someone still having work to do with false ego.

I don’t care who you are, you’re not perfect. Not in body and not in mind. For as long as you think this is not true, and it is a shock to you that some people might prefer another person over you in comparison, you’re holding on to a false ego. The irony being that […]

Self-confidence and intelligence have no direct correlation.

How do you know you’re… Stupid was the question of the day, rather than how do you know you’re smart. Here are some pointers: Society at large is created for the average person to navigate with relative ease, and regular schools are designed for the average person. Everyday jobs are for the regular person. If […]

True Emotion Mirrors: For once your ego and your heart are in agreement.

The goodness of your heart lies constantly. All the time. Mostly, what it says is “You’ll be happy with this. Put your ego aside.” When you meet your True Emotion Mirror, your ego rejoices: “He/she is everything I’ve ever wanted! I cannot believe they’re even real. I WANT THEM. They’ll make me look good, they’ll […]

Your looks should reflect self-respect, respect for other people, and your romantic and sexual partner.

Your looks should be reflect respect. Respect for yourself, other people in general, and your romantic and sexual partner(s). It shouldn’t be about trying to fit a mold, trying to be perfect, gaining acceptance or approval for being prettier than others. You don’t need to be the prettiest thing alive, or the most handsome man […]

What flattering an inferior does to their self-esteem; their ego and their vos

We are all, every person everywhere, our own display of perfection. No matter how weird it may look to you, we’re all our own idea of the best of humanity. Don’t blame them – you’re the same. We change when our own idea of the ideal person changes, not a moment before. Therefore, technically, everybody […]

How do you know genuine admiration from a deliberate ego-trapping?

I have a personal fear of what I call an ego-trap. It used to be quite a popular high school bully strategy, but also a very educational one. It is when you tell a person pretty lies and promises only to trap them from having an unrealistically positive ego and self-image. I doubt that the […]

Fake competence and self-confidence with the Dog Type Thinker Thinking parent.

the Dog Type Thinker are tricky for a Cat Type Thinkers Thinking child to understand. A the Cat Type Thinkers Thinking child or adult will expect their parent to accept that “OK, the Offspring looks like they know what they’re doing. They’re not going to kill themselves by simply being an idiot. They know how […]

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