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How to take sexual identity labels?

There are two types of people: those who view these identity labels as descriptive words, that help us communicate what we are and what makes us happy, and those, who take them as limiting and separating labels that create unnecessary complications in their lives. I am, again, talking about the Savants* and the Young […]

Where does self-confidence come from?

Self-confidence comes from feeling that you know and like who you are. You like who you are, and you know nobody in this world has the power to change who you are against your will. You like being you and know you are secure in your right to be who you are. Self-confidence does not […]

Don’t let your ego talk you into the wrong relationships when looking for true love.

If you are consciously looking for your True Emotion Mirror, you will likely start interpreting mild True Emotion Mirror signs for real ones. It’s also true with just a regular “the right one” concept; you want to find it so bad that you’ll start seeing things. Still, you know you don’t like this thing about […]

What is the line between narcissism and high self-esteem?

People often confuse being self-satisfied with being narcissistic. This is not truly a good measure to say whether someone is narcissistic or not. However, there is a link between the two: a narcissistic person has an unrealistically positive self-image, and they believe, unrealistically, that others admire them over something that the others might never feel […]

How ego, the idea of self; “who am I” is formulated.

When people discover their identity and who they are, they go through certain phases. This is why “just be yourself” is often unhelpful advice; it’s difficult to even know who that “self” is. To begin with, we have to define how ego, our idea of self, forms. We are a combination of things we enjoy […]

How did the Normal Person* get such a massive ego?

This doesn’t apply to all the Normal Person*people, but it definitely applies to the ambitious variety; the ones who LOVE to get compliments and opportunities from the Savants* of some status or wealth. The way it works is that the Normal Person* goes fishing for compliments, acknowledgment, attention, and favors from an individual they […]

How to purify you from centuries worth of reincarnational false ego?

We’ve all been through a lot in our reincarnational past. Whatever is important to you now has probably always been important to you, but that doesn’t mean it is or has been easy. We’ve gone through century after century of relationship fashion fads, new stupid ideas in spirituality and psychology, and we’ve basically been fucked […]

Be careful about which virtues you use to build your ego – your idea of self.

Let’s say you pride yourself on being ‘loyal.’ Now, you meet someone who from day one grills you on whether you are a loyal person or not. You know what you can be certain of? This person is not going to be an easy ride. You will WANT TO ditch them, and if you now […]

Abuser logic: “I need you not to have the self-confidence to leave me.”

The reason why abusers try to tear down your self-confidence from up close is so they’ll make it so you won’t have the self-confidence to leave them. They justify this by telling themselves that “deep down they love you” and that “they’ll have you back in a pinch.” But what “the pinch” is or might […]

Ego & Vos – the stories you tell yourself about yourself and an other person.

New Age has somewhat warped idea of ego. They seem to think “ego” means “arrogance” or “separation”. It means neither, but both words speak of the ego of the person saying it. (If you want to stop reading here, watch your ego.) Everybody has got an ego, even the most zen people in this world […]

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