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The illusion of “deserving love” and creation of a false ego

We are all after true love. However, the way we feel about how love is obtained differs by the emotional maturity of a given person. As people reincarnate, their understanding of each phase lesson gradually deepens. The first times, the lessons are shallow and narrow, but the more lives you live, the deeper the understanding […]

Power move: Building a HEALTHY false ego to change people’s vos

Yes, I understand! The idea of a healthy false ego is a contradiction in terms! It’s similar to terms like consensual rape or giving a guilty plea while maintaining innocence. Yet, sometimes, contradictions can work as a beautiful combination of things that shouldn’t exist in the same room, like pink and green. Building a healthy […]

Romantic self-confidence; when is it too much, and when isn’t it enough?

Absolute self-confidence is nothing but a sign of stupidity, I said some time ago. I also said, that a person MUST BE ABLE to accept the THEORETICAL possibility that they might not be wanted by someone. That their company simply MIGHT NOT BE welcomed by all people, no matter how much they, themselves love that […]

Letting go of people easier by love, not by self-denial

You know how we try to do it… When we feel our love isn’t welcome, we start fighting against ourselves and the love we feel and we try to talk ourselves out of loving the other person as much as we do… If this is a half-ready True Emotion Mirror bond, it is important for […]

Denial, humility, true love, dreams, and ego

It is beyond frustrating to try and reject someone who doesn’t seem to be getting the message. No matter how much you try to insult them or hurt their feelings to drive them away from you, they find a way to interpret what you say or do as a sign of undying, ultimate, height of […]

Self-denial is about telling yourself no to something you really want

When people tell you that you’re so full of self-denial, it sounds like an insult, doesn’t it? But in reality, it’s actually telling you that you should take more liberties for yourself than what you’ve taken in the past. They are telling you to say “yes” to the things you want to do, but have […]

How the ego stops a person from achieving what they think should be easy

I learned to write HTML with no effort at all in 1998 and 1999. I had no expectations on it whatsoever. I got a little excited about the Internet, and as I was enthusing about it, my then boyfriend handed me a book and said: “Learn that”. I thought I might as well learn a […]

Showing off, self-confidence, and where’s the limit?

People always say the sexiest thing in this world is self-confidence, and I agree. That is unless you’re into downright flashy people like some of us, most of us even, are, whether we like to admit to it or not. We love people who are bravely themselves, proud of who they are, flashy and sparkly […]

Self-observation; dig into the uncomfortable thought

Take this as your guiding light from now on: Whenever you are having an uncomfortable feeling about a thought, that feeling in the pit of your stomach that something is off, something is negative, or that something is not… How it should be somehow, like, perhaps, you don’t love someone as much as you should, […]

The meaning of self-confidence in a True Emotion Mirror relationship

Self-confidence is the key to ALL of our relationships, each and every one of them. The reason is somewhat simpler than what it sounds… When we are insecure about ourselves and how we’ll be received, or even whether people would love us TOO MUCH if they knew what we are like, we don’t let our […]

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