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Why two Dog Type Thinking True Emotion Mirrors can make an easy transition to a relationship?

Dog Type Thinkers believe that being loved is the priviledge, not to love. Cat Type Thinkers have been the object of one-sided love for too often, to be unaware of how lacklustre it feels to be loved by someone you don’t love back. It feela like you’re trapped with a guilt trip to boot. That’s […]

One of those points of growth and healing: you’ll stop TRYING to LOOK balanced or healthy.

There are certain behaviors and attitudes that are generally considered “unhinged,” “unbalanced,” “pathological,” or simply “childish.” It is always one way to control another person’s behavior is to try and unnerve them by saying their behavior is something along those lines, “not healthy” or “not mature.” One of the ways people will mature over time […]

Thrive for perfectionism and letting go of the outcome

Lover-thinking* and Cat Type Thinking* interaction is often a battle over what is a worthwhile level of effort, and whether, for instance, thriving for physical beauty is acceptable or simply vanity. The Dog Type Thinker want to relax the Cat Type Thinkers by insisting they shouldn’t waste time and effort on “something so pointless” as […]

Letting go of the outcome of True Emotion Mirrors.

You have to trust something: the person who you are is attractive to the person(s) who is (are) your True Emotion Mirror(s) and Precious Soulmates. No matter how you do it. The way YOU do YOU is what is attractive to the right people. While your True Emotion Mirrors want you to charm them, they […]

the Dog Type Thinker transition to a Cat Type Thinkers

There are a few key life lessons to be learned between the Dog Type Thinker and the Cat Type Thinkers. Both types know and agree that there are unwanted, unlikeable traits in other people. The Dog Type Thinker tend to think their traits are lovely, understandable, sensible, and categorically ‘right.’ Still, the Cat Type Thinkers […]

Letting go of it; why does the Law of Attraction require you to let go of what you want?

You may have studied the Law of Attraction. It states that you have to become very clear about what you want, visualize it, put energy to it, and yet, somehow give up on it – let go of it. There’s a reason why that’s important. If you hold onto something your negative spirit attachments (or […]

Letting go and holding on – the balance point to find with your True Emotion Mirror

Life is a constant balancing act. We tend to over-correct sometimes, when we realize we’ve made a mistake, we tend to over-correct to the other extreme. Letting go is one of those things. When we realize we are hurting someone we love by desperately hanging onto them despite them not loving us back, we stop […]

Letting go of the need to be in control of what you can’t control

Proud control freaks, attention, please. There are things you can control, and there are things you cannot control. Then, there are things you’d be very stupid trying to control. This is the wisdom to know the difference. You cannot (directly) control How other people feel (about you). (You can control their behavior and their spoken […]

True Emotion Mirrors – If you cannot let go, try letting go of letting go

The message to let go and to not be needy or clingy can be so overwhelming – and I certainly haven’t been quiet about it myself – that we cannot let go of the must of letting go. We start clinging onto the need to let go and then can’t let go. So… Let go […]

Letting go of people easier by love, not by self-denial

You know how we try to do it… When we feel our love isn’t welcome, we start fighting against ourselves and the love we feel and we try to talk ourselves out of loving the other person as much as we do… If this is a half-ready True Emotion Mirror bond, it is important for […]

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