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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

Don’t worry, you’re not so hot that people will line up to meet your demands against their will. Trust me.

So I just found out that my True Emotion Mirror, who, to me, is the hottest thing in the world, doesn’t talk to me or other women about what he wants from women because he’s afraid women will jump into pleasing him… Successfully. Yes. The dude’s like ripped out of the cover of a romance […]

How to get rid of a trust-bonded or overly-eager Dog Type Thinker

Take a leaf out of the playbook of a person with an Avoidant Attachment Disorder: Make it THEIR FAULT that your relationship isn’t going anywhere. A person with an Avoidant Attachment Disorder will do this with everyone, you can apply it to one person or the unwanted type of people. “I don’t think you are […]

The child’s trust in a narcissistic ex spouse.

A narcissist is a child in an adult body. They are not evil any more than a child is evil when scared or fighting to survive on their own in the big, bad world. It is difficult for an adult in an adult body to understand what they are so afraid of, but one of […]

Can sex be your primary connection and it still be a True Emotion Mirror connection?

Yes, it can, and it kinda has to be. It, too, must be mutual, however, even if you have a mutual fetish for “forced” scenarios. But it cannot be your ONLY connection. Our sexuality is the thing that brings people together into a sexual relationship. A romantic/sexual relationship without sex is called a friendship, not […]

“Strong female character” doesn’t mean physical strength

One of my pet peeves in this world is Hollywood’s idea of what “a strong female character” means. They tend to take a male role and replace the actor with a woman. What the phrase means is not about physical strength,  it means a strong characterisation of a female; strong, good writing about a woman’s […]

You have to raise your children so you can trust them to handle themselves when they grow up.

There is a weird spiritual phenomenon that is there to protect us from mind control. It prevents a person from doing anything that an outside force is trying to make them do – even if it is for their own protection or to help someone else. If another entity tries to push another into doing […]

Asking for blind trust and tests of loyalty is not romantic – it’s a scam.

Online or offline, scammers trust on two character traits: Blind trust and loyalty. If you have to PROVE THESE, you’re dealing with a scammer. If you have to BRAVE YOURSELF, it’s a scam. A well-intentioned, empathic person will be more than ready to prove their trustworthiness to you. And that makes them a potential victim […]

To make or break a persistent (unwanted) connection to someone who insists they love you…

If you are in a situation where someone is persistently in love with you and demanding a chance, give them permission to love you as much as they do, and give them a chance to prove to you that they do, indeed, love you. Do not promise to love them back, however, or to have […]

the Dog Type Thinker follow the leader blindly – and are willing to commit murders to prove they trust the leader 100%.

What makes Lover-thinking* dangerous for themselves and others is that they are willing to follow their leader so blindly that they’ll commit murders without being asked to sometimes. (Currently, the more likely outcome to this blind worship is a severed penis or reverted vagina, however.) The problem is that if the leader is a Cat […]

Why can’t we “just trust” the True Emotion Mirror connection?

A True Emotion Mirror connection benefits from certain innocent faith in love. Realism is a little toxic to it, but being a realist myself, I cannot help but analyze. “Why can’t you just trust it?” is like asking a cow to “just fly.” Maybe a better analogy would be an injured bird. You can’t “just […]

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