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the Survivalist* follow the leader blindly – and are willing to commit murders to prove they trust the leader 100%.

What makes Lover-thinking* dangerous for themselves and others is that they are willing to follow their leader so blindly that they’ll commit murders without being asked to sometimes. (Currently, the more likely outcome to this blind worship is a severed penis or reverted vagina, however.) The problem is that if the leader is a Old […]

Why can’t we “just trust” the True Emotion Mirror connection?

A True Emotion Mirror connection benefits from certain innocent faith in love. Realism is a little toxic to it, but being a realist myself, I cannot help but analyze. “Why can’t you just trust it?” is like asking a cow to “just fly.” Maybe a better analogy would be an injured bird. You can’t “just […]

A True Emotion Mirror bond never feels bad. If your connection feels bad, it’s something else.

Intense soulmate connections happen. Some of them feel good, some of them feel bad. The ones that feel bad are about something other than a True Emotion Mirror connection. A True Emotion Mirror always feels good to you, even if it goes dreadfully wrong. Even when you’re not talking, you feel better just knowing they’re […]

The test of blind trust -people

There are people who believe that if you were kind to them first and then turn abusive, it’s a test of faith, loyalty, or daring, and that on the other side of the suffering lies a great reward, something as an uplift in social status, wealth, or (better) marriage. It may be near impossible to […]

Looking for a connection in the confrontation.

The real reason for people picking a fight and seeking confrontation is probably that they’re looking for a connection with another person. However, when one such person is arguing with a connected person, their goal in that argument is different. One wants to solve their own lack of connection and make a friend by mutually […]

How to break an unwanted bond with a person you have a spirit connection to?

It is possible that an unwanted suitor, or a friend that should have never been a friend, a karmic soulmate, gains access to you in spirit. I have been in this situation for 13 years, and nothing I do or say will make them disappear. However, I just realized something. I don’t suffer from it […]

A person who loves you will give you time to adjust and to trust.

A celebrity asked me how they can trust a person who promises them everything. They seem too good to be true, but they fear yet another humiliating public relationship failure in front of cameras. They fear their new person will be impatient to get in front of cameras and to become famous (for a good […]

People with intimacy issues will hang onto relationships in which they are not quite wanted.

When you have a fear of intimacy, you run from relationships that are actually available to you and cling to those that are not. That makes the relationship very superficial and thus manageable for someone who has a fear of intimacy. They will never have to measure up to the expectations of a spouse or […]

You have to tell yourself the truth – you’re the only one you can fully trust to do so.

There are people who lie to themselves. A lot of them. There are also people who lie to others about how they feel about that other… Most people do unless they’re willing to LIVE with their words. People can tell you they love you or care about you, “of course,” but you cannot trust words […]

Trust your instinct, when your partner is “just friends” with someone and you don’t like it.

The thing is, we are not jealous in the same way or for the same things. You have the right to your feelings, but remember, so do your partner and their friend. What I mean by this is that we can well be in ill-fitting relationships, and you may not like your boyfriend having a […]

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