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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

Their Healing Precious Soulmate loves your True Emotion Mirror out of love and respect for you, too.

The Healing Precious Soulmate is a transitionary permanent bond between people. It is somewhat of a “false TrEmoR” but is an authentic, beautiful connection. The purpose of this connection is that of healing and revitalizing, as the name suggests. It is more selfless than the connection between True Emotion Mirrors, which has this deeply selfish […]

Random thoughts about narcissistic relationships

Narcissists will always attempt to safe face by blaming all relationship issues on someone else. They fear relationships, and they fear being alone, but when they are once again at the brink of a breakup, they need YOU TO KNOW that IT WAS YOUR FAULT, your ex’s fault, your mother’s fault, maybe your dog’s fault, […]

Some secrets are kept from you out of respect for you.

There are times when people keep you at an arm’s lenght to protect you and to respect you. They may not be the kind of a person you think they are and they are acutely aware of that. Therefore, they keep you out of their lives. They may think you are naive, but they still […]

Don’t worry, we don’t judge you for your failed relationships, dear celebs.

While in the 1950’s, celebrity divorces may have made people gasp in horror, Gen X or anyone younger won’t give a f*** anymore. We get it. Most of our relationships are just as messy these days, just not front-page news. XD

Your relationships are not your job.

Even parenting should be a privilege and a joy, or you’re doing it wrong. NO RELATIONSHIP that you have an option to not have is not a job. This leaves work relationships that are literally a job as jobs, but your personal relationships are all NOT A JOB. They exist to make your life better, […]

Do not have relationships to please God or your parents.

And for the love of God don’t have kids to please someone else. The last thing we need in this world is a bunch of unwanted children for an unwilling parent, if we need more people at all. We’ve got enough people, thanks. Have children if it pleases you. Have relationships if it pleases you. […]

Your looks should reflect self-respect, respect for other people, and your romantic and sexual partner.

Your looks should be reflect respect. Respect for yourself, other people in general, and your romantic and sexual partner(s). It shouldn’t be about trying to fit a mold, trying to be perfect, gaining acceptance or approval for being prettier than others. You don’t need to be the prettiest thing alive, or the most handsome man […]

Realism in relationships makes you a lot less vulnerable for emotional hurt, but you have to learn to play your way through meaningless drama.

Some people enjoy the drama of emotional hurt. Some people hide behind the drama and enjoy the drama even when the relationship breakup and troubles are real. These people like to “feel big” by replacing real emotions with empty drama because drama is meaningless. Nobody really gets hurt during drama. However, if you see drama […]

You have to respect people’s masculinity, too.

Femininity is always respected, right? A lot of talk goes into respecting women and feminine women and feminine needs and whatnot. Well, masculinity also deserves respect. One of the things that masculine people, masculine women included, don’t really like is maternal love energy in a hug from someone OTHER than their closely bonded mother, particularly […]

Friendship and relationships between different kinds of people require a lot of empathy – not sympathy.

Sympathy is something people connect through when they are with people kin to themselves. They feel the same. They understand each other effortlessly. Friendship between different kinds of people requires empathy both ways. You must acknowledge your differences and still understand each other, your perspectives, situations, and life goals. “Do unto others as you’d do […]

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