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Friday, May 26th, 2023 at
5:40 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, straight, Trust Issues, warnings
I think both genders have this idea that the other gender would rather not deal with the other. There’s a backing of reality to it, and it’s a bit of a long story to share. I’ll get to that for those who want it, but for those who don’t, let’s just say this: Heterosexual and […]
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Thursday, February 16th, 2023 at
10:36 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, Trust Issues
Men are not particularly bad at relationships. Neither are women. Women are not “better at relationships” at all. We are all great at relationships that we understand. Everything else, we blame on the opposite party. The Young Soul* think they are “great at relationships” but they’re great at relationships with other the Young Soul* only. […]
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Sunday, February 12th, 2023 at
3:44 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Emotional Boundaries, Healthy Masculinity, Old Souls*, Respect, Self-Worth, Thinker Type, Young Soul*
When the Young Soul*asks for respect, they basically mean the exact opposite of what a Old Souls* means. Self-respect is similarly the opposite for them: the Young Soul* respect: “Consider me worthy of your company and care.” the Young Soul* self-respect: “I demand that you will not reject me because I am a worthy individual […]
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Friday, February 10th, 2023 at
1:52 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, Trust Issues, warnings
If you seek commitment, try not to forget that relationships can be broken. Divorce is still a real thing. This is the reason: When you commit to someone with absolutely NO WAY OUT the only risk you’re facing now is that THIS won’t work, and you’re stuck. Then, your full focus goes into TRYING to […]
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Saturday, December 31st, 2022 at
6:21 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, Trust Issues
When you make a friend, it’s good to know their priorities. In which order do they consider themselves loyal – by default? Friends (which ones, male or female friends?), family members (does the gender of the family member count?), boyfriends/girlfriends, fiances, spouses? Does a friend get behind a spouse, or do they remain a first […]
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Saturday, December 24th, 2022 at
9:41 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, Internet, Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology, relationships, Soulmates, True Emotion Mirrors, True Love, Trust Issues
There are two kinds of people, basically. One wants one type of love, and others want that other. Then, there’s a third type that everybody avoids; an obsession. The trouble is that True Emotion Mirror relationships may look on the outside like an obsession without being so. Obsession is a feeling that you cling to […]
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Saturday, December 24th, 2022 at
2:53 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, Trust Issues
OK, so in a fit of anger, you screamed at your mother that you’d never speak to her again for as long as you live, and you won’t be seen at her fucking funeral, either. Giving it six months, your feelings have somewhat eased up; should you keep to your decision just so you don’t […]
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Friday, February 25th, 2022 at
7:00 am in Australia - Last edit on
January 22, 2025 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, Trust Issues
I know you won’t believe me at first, at least. This kind of goes against all relationship advice you’ve heard so far – but how is your love life going? Have awesome friends, then? Played it all by the book and your relationships are bland or temporary to say the best? You’ve sort of approached […]
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Wednesday, February 23rd, 2022 at
2:09 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Ego, Emotional Boundaries, Healthy Masculinity, Respect, Self-Love, Self-Worth
Tick the right answers. (Some are wrong.) I hold myself to a standard that I am proud of and won’t allow anyone to drag me down from without a very good reason. I will not allow others to violate myself, my rights, or my values within reason. I will make sure others kneel before me. […]
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Sunday, December 5th, 2021 at
11:26 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, friends, love, Love Relationships, relationships, The Free Spirit Theory, Trust Issues
Short and sweet: If you’re a catch, and others agree, they’ll want to… well, catch you. If you’re dependent on having SOMEONE, you won’t stay alone/single for long enough to even FIND someone worthy of you, let alone making it official. (Polyamory might be a good idea.)
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