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Something the Savants* might have a blind spot on in their relationships… (RARE!)

What the Savants* and the Normal Person* are looking for in a relationship is very different, but what the Savants* have often given up on is the “childishness” of this wish of theirs, and they keep ignoring it thinking “it shouldn’t matter” because it doesn’t matter to the Normal Person*, and it maybe […]

the Normal Person* invest in relationships, the Savants* in individuals

When the Normal Person* offers kindness, friendliness, help, gifts, guidance etc. to another person, they invest in their mutual relationship, whatever their relationship. They think: “I treat you this way, our relationship becomes stronger.” An Savant*, when they show another person kindness or friendliness or is helpful, gives guidance, or gifts, invests in the individual […]

How Good People Wind Up In Abusive Relationships

The number one reason why people feel abused in a relationship (as opposed to actually being in an abusive relationship) is the fact that people interpret and express emotions in very different ways. In addition, there are people who, instead of realizing that “you’ve got a problem (ie. we are incompatible), I can’t fix that, […]

Love Relationships for Those with a High Sex Drive

Those of us who have a very high sex drive tend to feel that we are required to choose between a life of meaningless sex or a permanent love relationship, but that a highly sexual love relationship is simply non-existent, so rare, that there is not even a myth supporting its existence! Let’s just create […]

How can I fuck someone I respect?

In reality, we get turned on by all the wrong people. Respecting and loving someone is a tricky thing when our natural feelings of respect and love are attached to people who society tells us not to respect nor love, or even look at as a human being, let alone someone you should respect… Then again… You might respect someone too much… Ach!

Sexuality and Poly-relationships and Platonic Gender Preferences

I haven’t even TOUCHED on stuff like cross-dressing, transgender stuff, pan-sexuality and all of that, I am still just talking everyday normal people who go about their days thinking “this is what sex is, and this is what I’m used to”, and I find enough possible type combinations to make anyone want to shoot themselves. […]

True Emotion Mirror relationships are extremely fragile before full surrender

Contrary what you  might expect, the most amazing of our soul bonds are extremely fragile (and volatile) before both (all) lovers have truly confessed their feelings for another and given each other to one another. This is because if there is any doubt of the other one’s true feelings, their lover cannot and will not […]

Poly-relationships: True Love or Just Simple Boredom?

Poly-relationships, whichever way you like them, polyandrous, polygynous, group marriage, committed, non-committed, equal, or unequal are all a way to make a lackluster relationship far more interesting in the long run. That is a fact, but not all poly-relationships are about the lack of true love but the opposite; the authentic state of an authentic group of […]

True Emotion Mirror relationships by soul age level

True Emotion Mirror relationships, even classic True Emotion Mirror reunion, can happen at any soul age level at all. There are some differences in what the relationship looks like and what causes drama in the relationship, partly based on the soul age level of the pair. Each True Emotion Mirror pair is always on the […]

Bisexuality and poly-relationships, are all poly’s bi?

Polysexuality is quite an interesting topic to explore, even if it was only from a theoretical point of view. Often, polygamyORpolygynandry1 is automatically linked to the form of polygyny; one man marrying several wives whose primary job is to rub the husband’s feet and nurse his babies, right? In reality, and in modern day reality, […]

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