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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

If you feel constant pressure to publish a project early, maybe don’t start advertising it before you’re well close to release date.

I hate it when movie producers start promoting a movie sometimes six months or even a year before it’s released. I get it. You think nobody will show up if you leave it to the last minute, but you know… By the time the movie is out, you, as a non-devoted fan, are sick of […]

Radical Acceptance and how your soulmates feel about you

Radical acceptance is a great Buddhist concept that I am not at all an expert in. However, by all accounts, this is something I have practiced my whole life without even thinking about it. That said, I know there is a dark side to it that I wish to talk to you about. Let me […]

Road to acceptance: Making fun of it, taking dead seriously, then gradually making fun of it again.

When people learn to accept something they previously had even severe issues with, they first start making fun of it, then they talk seriously about it, and eventually, they start making fun of it again. The bigger the issue, the longer these stages take; we’re still at the serious stage with racism, but we’re already […]

How to answer a fan asking after a release that is already late?

I’ve been asked to answer this question, as to what to tell a fan who catches you in person (at a fan meeting may be) and wants to know when something you know is badly delayed is going to be released. You may feel guilty for making them wait, but in truth, the only thing […]

Negotiating your release from karmic bonds

You don’t necessarily have to do this in person, but you might. If you do have a habit of having spirit conversations, this will work, hopefully, in a spirit conversation, too. What the Savants* don’t often notice is that the Normal Person* expect a certain negotiation to take place at the end of a […]

From Approval to Acceptance – Approval is for your inner circle only!

This is among advanced posts, the whole problem is quite a difficult concept to wrap your head around. This is relevant to M8R10 people primarily. If you feel you have TOO MANY PEOPLE pushing their way into your inner circle, and that you have to constantly kind of protect yourself from people trying to “get […]

Acceptance of minority groups and the right to an intimate relationship

Again, I’m going to try and move the cursor from “too much” closer to “what’s fair”, in what is “acceptance” and what is asking a bit too much. There is a level of confusion in what is “acceptance”, what is “discrimination”, and what are basic human rights… And I’m going to start with one simple […]

Self-acceptance in not needing or wanting women

Ever since I was a child, I’ve felt like I wanted to hang out with boys much more than other girls. I always thought it was simply something that was appropriate rather than what girls wanted to do, just something civilized people did. If I had had my way, I would have hung out with […]

Catch, wait, release – if he/she stays…

OK, this is going to be interesting. I’ve never done this before for this before quite like this. I asked Tarot for a topic to write about without any idea what I was going to get. I got three cards, basically to me meaning, catch, wait and release. And I’m like whaa–? Then it dawned […]