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Friendship and relationships between different kinds of people require a lot of empathy – not sympathy.

Sympathy is something people connect through when they are with people kin to themselves. They feel the same. They understand each other effortlessly. Friendship between different kinds of people requires empathy both ways. You must acknowledge your differences and still understand each other, your perspectives, situations, and life goals. “Do unto others as you’d do […]

A neglected person has nowhere to draw empathy from.

A person who has never felt important to anybody, especially when growing up, will have nowhere to draw empathy (love) from for another person. This might happen even with those who might seem like good parents: when a child is being raised for other people only, they can feel they, themselves, have no value at […]

Self-interest vs Empathy – how to motivate people do the right thing?

There are people who function completely out of self-interest alone. You try and tell a self-interested mother, that their actions are hurting their child, and they’ll reply that the actions of their child are “selfish” because they are not 100% directed to taking care of the mother’s needs. At the same time, you can lecture […]

Finding your soulmate through increasing your self-awareness

Self-awareness means that you are aware of your own motivations, feelings, emotions, thoughts, likes, dislikes, dreams, goals, and anything else that is related to your own way of being. A person who is not very self-aware will pay little attention to what they are internally thinking and focus mostly on the external; other people, news, […]