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Why does the Normal Person* think you’re in love with them or flirting with them when you truly are not.

the Normal Person* have a bizarre way of thinking. They think that kindness, friendliness, and helpfulness are all signs of trying to unite and be one with them. They think that every compliment, everything that is nice or the right thing to do by another, is like an application fee or a demand for a […]

Why giving false hope (even by playfully flirting) to someone you would never date or love is not nice.

Imagine you’re a celebrity, gorgeous, talented, and amazing. At your fan meeting, you flirt with all the ugly girls or guys, because you think they would NEVER take your flirtation seriously, and there would be no press coverage of “you having found new love” because it is obvious your interest isn’t real, it’s just fun. […]

The Thinker Types from Flirting to Narcissism

The two thinker types, the Normal Person* (we), and the Savants* (I) are quite likely the easiest described when we get WAY overboard with our way of thinking; turn narcissistic. The Normal Person* think of the world from the WE perspective, and everyone who they decide is a part of the we-collective has to […]

Flirting and bonding: the Normal Person* vs. The Savants*

Flirtation in the Normal Person* and the Savants* way can throw a lot of True Emotion Mirrors into a twist that is not easy to unravel. Let me describe some flirtation techniques that often get lost by a different type of a thinker – and how they often relate to also our natural bend […]