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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

Connected in spirit, friends in spirit, enemies in the real world?

There is more than one type of soulmate connection, and that also means that the in-spirit connection is different based on the person-to-person chain. While it is true we are *all* connected in spirit, it is not true that we are all friends in spirit. It is true we all help each other to get […]

Inspire losers wisely – do not make friends you’re not willing to commit to.

Imagine you see a young family with neglected children and you just feel sorry for them. You can take over their lives and hand-hold them into a better life, but as soon as you think they’re good, they collapse again like a potato sack nobody is holding up. Taking over someone’s lifeike that seems like […]

People who believe nice (and sex) is reserved for friends (and spouse-material) only, think you’re evil if you’re nice with more people.

Just saying. Some people believe you being nice and non-calculative is evil.

Offer information about yourself to make friends.

Do you feel like you’re an interviewer in your conversations with people? All you ever do is ask questions when others ask you none? Here’s the problem. Even interviewers have something to work with. They know a bit about that person so they know where to go with their questions. The fact you’ve taken an […]

Why do your straight friends treat you differently once you come out of the closet?

Men treat women differently than they treat other men, women treat other women differently than they treat men, and we all treat homosexuals differently than we treat straight people. It’s not so that our love for them diminishes, but the nature of the relationship drastically sifts once you find out that they are, in fact, […]

One-sided interaction doesn’t make you friends.

You laugh at their jokes. You admire them. Their presence brings you joy. They teach you things, and you learn from them. BUT. You rarely even attempt to make them laugh. You couldn’t teach them a thing; if you did, it would be one small lesson for 100 big ones going the other way. They […]

Apparently, your friends in spirit are not inspired by “positive outcomes”

They much rather make dreams come true. So think about it if you can. I’m a bit stuck with that one but you do it.

Do you have to change friends to cut away from poverty?

Years ago, I read a book about the Law of Attraction, and it said you have to drop your friends so you can break free from their lower thinking. I thought, “Surely not!” After all, who wants to live like that?! Luckily, that is not entirely correct. You have two options. You either share your […]

Be careful who you befriend: You’re not making friends for yourself only, but everyone who you will ever love in the future, too.

It is not a good piece of advice to keep your friends close and your enemies even closer – unless you’re the Dog Type Thinker. Then, you practically have no other choice. A the Cat Type Thinkers must know, that if the Dog Type Thinker wants your friendship, it’s possibly because they consider you that […]

People have different relationship rules for their acquittances, friends, family, and lovers.

You should be well aware that your son won’t treat you the same as he treats his wife. What we ask the public to respect us for is one thing, friends and family is another. A person’s dating profile may often address their usual annoyances and put very little mind to “the correct behavior,” and […]

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