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Celebrity: use wannabe friends as friend-filters.

As a celebrity, you can feel isolated and barred from the people you want to make friends with and flooded by those you don’t want. The ivory tower can keep many people you miss by your very soul away from you… But there is a solution that cures a couple of problems simultaneously. You’ve got […]

the Young Soul* Thinking narcissist counts success in friends and try to gain status to make more friends.

the Young Soul* counts success in love and friends, even if they have to fake it. If they feel they have to care for someone’s reputation, they want to create a facade of “they’re more loved than you” around someone they care about – either themselves or someone they feel sorry for. A the Young […]

Accessory friends (and what they potentially cost you.)

I believe we’ve all been born pretty damned narcissistic, back in some early early early incarnation of ours. From lifetime to lifetime, we become less so when we start to understand other people and their position better. We stop abusing others, even if in the way is the super narcissistic phase where you take pride […]

People who want to destroy you so they can help you and thus become your equals and friends can alter your ability to manifest.

No man is an island, and while the concept of the law of attraction mentions how important it is to surround yourself with the right people, sometimes that’s not possible. There are factors at play that make changing friends to the ones you want simply impossible. If there are people who want you for themselves, […]

the Old Souls* fight for the turf, the Young Soul* fight to teach you/to be taught how to be friends with them.

the Young Soul* Thinking family members almost never fight because they’re angry or because they hate you. They fight because they’re concerned and love you and try to educate you. With the Cat Thinking family members, they’re concerned because the Old Souls* doesn’t seem to be merging with the family the right way. They will […]

Why not taking ANYTHING personally creates enemies, not friends.

People have to give you feedback about your behavior every once in a while. Usually, they drop light hints about it at first, then they try bigger hints, followed by a calm, friendly conversation, but if all of that fails, starts the yelling. If a normal person is yelling at you, there’s a problem. There […]

the Young Soul* collect virtue points and “be there points” while laying a constant guilt trip on you and your friends…

If the Young Soul* has decided they want to be friends with you, there are not many things that can stop them. They are amazingly good at tiring you out, and forcing you to cut your losses; “if it means that much to them, FINE, let’s be friends.” That friendship, obviously, on your side, isn’t […]

Trust your instinct, when your partner is “just friends” with someone and you don’t like it.

The thing is, we are not jealous in the same way or for the same things. You have the right to your feelings, but remember, so do your partner and their friend. What I mean by this is that we can well be in ill-fitting relationships, and you may not like your boyfriend having a […]

How to eliminate a person you don’t like from your circle of friends with class.

1. Never be friends with someone you don’t love. Don’t be mean, just avoid talking to them about anything more meaningful than the weather. 2. Have a conversation with your real friends about any individuals you have reservations about and agree to a way to handle them appropriately. 3. If you truly have to eliminate […]

Your friends’ idea of what love is will potentially screw up your love life.

It is important that you hang out with people much like yourself if you want to experience something. The reason for this is that your friends want what is best for you, but their definition of “the best” may vary quite a bit from yours. For instance, if you want to experience “True love,” your […]

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