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Your friends’ idea of what love is will potentially screw up your love life.

It is important that you hang out with people much like yourself if you want to experience something. The reason for this is that your friends want what is best for you, but their definition of “the best” may vary quite a bit from yours. For instance, if you want to experience “True love,” your […]

Love and Tragedy, Sex and Murder – why you need to watch who you’re friends with.

This is going to be profoundly disturbing for True Emotion Mirrors. There are people who automatically link sex to murder and love to a tragic death in their minds like there is no other alternative. Without the tragic death of one or the other lover, these people believe the love will eventually turn stale. They […]

Wealth allows you to have the friends you love rather than friends who love you.

Think of it this way. When you’re poor, you kinda have to settle for people who love you, even if you didn’t love them that much yourself. They’re there for you, putting up with your poverty; you can never go anywhere, do anything, have fun, but they put up with you, so you go along […]

How to make friends, you ask?

When you’re making friends, you have to build trust on two qualities before anything else: 1) You are harmless to them; you won’t cause emotional upset, financial danger, or obvious, predictable problems by becoming their friend. Friends will always come with a level of drama, but if the problems are already visible at first glance, […]

Why you can’t use your friends and family as volunteers.

When you’re aiming to be a star of some kind, business, or art, you rely on your exceptional talent, skill, vision, or eye for detail to do what you do. This skill is most likely lacking in your childhood friends and family members, otherwise, you wouldn’t be considered special anyway. There are people who do […]

the Survivalist* don’t learn from non-friends.

the Survivalist* cannot trust a person who isn’t their parent or a close friend to teach them anything worth learning. This is why formal education doesn’t work on the Survivalist* very reliably at all. This is also the reason why the Survivalist* easily adopt bad ideas from friends. The Survivalist* are […]

Me leaving my friends and family behind to join my TrEmoRs is not a universal expectation.

If you pull this post up, you might know a bit about me personally. The fact I have left my friends and family behind to be with my True Emotion Mirrors has NOTHING to do with my True Emotion Mirrors. My friends and family… Let’s just say I have made bad decisions in my previous […]

Your true friends and lovers love your ideal future vision of yourself… Not necessarily what you are now.

What you want and wish to be is, in some sense, more important about you than what you currently are. Obviously, you cannot just narcissistically make yourself believe you already are what you wish you were in the future and skip the work involved to get there, but what you wish you were, ultimately, is […]

Don’t hard-sell your friends or family members to another person.

You know what is the most annoying thing when you’re single, looking for a job, looking to collaborate with someone, or looking to hire? There’s always someone who knows “just the guy/girl” for you, and you already know 95% of those suggestions are going to be disappointing or completely off. The intention may be good, […]

Why would someone cut contact with their family or former friends?

I will have to, again refer to the difference in thinking between the Idealists* thinkers and the Survivalist* thinkers. When the Survivalist*ality relaxes with their loved ones, they tend to be a little argumentative and aggressive. Kind of like dogs playing. The Idealists* thinkers are not. When a Idealists* thinker […]

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