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Sunday, December 5th, 2021 at
11:26 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, friends, love, Love Relationships, relationships, The Free Spirit Theory, Trust Issues
Short and sweet: If you’re a catch, and others agree, they’ll want to… well, catch you. If you’re dependent on having SOMEONE, you won’t stay alone/single for long enough to even FIND someone worthy of you, let alone making it official. (Polyamory might be a good idea.)
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Wednesday, September 15th, 2021 at
9:34 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: family, friends, Soulmates, success
No matter how much you’re loved, you won’t be a success until you are understood first and loved second. If the people in your life don’t understand you, you might as well surround yourself with enemies… You’d be better off making enemies than being loved by people who don’t understand you. Enemies KNOW deep down […]
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Wednesday, August 18th, 2021 at
8:19 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: friends
I have a friend on Second Life that is so sought after as a friend, loved, and appreciated by many, that I started wondering how does he do it? So many people rely on him in their times of drama and trial, and I wondered… He is, in a sense, a standard-issue kind of guy… […]
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Thursday, April 1st, 2021 at
5:07 pm in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: friends
Imagine you’re in love with someone. Head over heels. Irreversibly. You think she feels the same way about you – but it would simply be too effin’ good to be true. So you decide to ask around a bit, namely, her friends should probably be able to give you the truth… What she wants, if […]
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Thursday, April 1st, 2021 at
1:04 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: friends
There are people… The Normal Person*, who see marriage as a way to ensure better genes and financial position for the family. I am hoping this will die out eventually, as it is a past life trauma caused by the habit of political marrying, but people who think like this still exist. These people still […]
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Saturday, November 21st, 2020 at
2:05 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: friends, secrets
Everyone has secrets, but some people have public secrets. We all allow our most intimate thoughts to come out and play with our most trusted people. It may come as a surprise to many, that not all people share their secrets with family and “friends”. It will come as a surprise to the other type, […]
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Monday, September 7th, 2020 at
10:36 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Authenticity, friends, love, Soulmate, True Love
I’ll declare a ban on loyalty. It is the enemy of true love and friendship, as it so easily ties you to the wrong people, systematically abusive people included. There’s a trick of course. Eventually, you’ll find people who are more important to you than anyone else, and you’ll spend your days making sure that […]
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Saturday, August 8th, 2020 at
1:02 pm in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: friends
There is another big difference between the Savants* type and the Normal Person* type that particularly the Savants* must become aware of because there’s no real convincing of the Normal Person* that what I’m about to say about the Savants* is true. The Normal Person* believe that everyone has a self-interest first, […]
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Tuesday, June 9th, 2020 at
8:23 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: friends, Soulmate
The single most destructive thing you can do to a person is to try and help them get laid, into a relationship, married, or to save their marriage. The thing is this: A relationship is between two people, not three, four, five, UNLESS it is a polygamous thing in which case, again, get out of […]
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Thursday, May 21st, 2020 at
1:58 am in Australia - Last edit on
September 20, 2024 Tags: friends, lovers, Parenting, Soulmate
People prioritize their relationships differently. Whether they have that relationship or not, they’ll always feel that they lack a certain type of a relationship when it’s missing, or romanticize and prioritize the one they’ve got above all other types. It is important for great relationships, that the people in it prioritize the same relationship type. […]
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