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Relationship(type) priorities (parent-child, siblings, friends, lovers?)

People prioritize their relationships differently. Whether they have that relationship or not, they’ll always feel that they lack a certain type of a relationship when it’s missing, or romanticize and prioritize the one they’ve got above all other types. It is important for great relationships, that the people in it prioritize the same relationship type. […]

Polyandrist (heterosexual) woman, you have no need for female friends

If you have identified that you are, in fact, a polyandrist, this post is for you. And, in this post, I’m addressing female polyandrists, (as opposed to the male polyandrists, the ones you’re looking for). This is a somewhat new revelation for me, so I am simply going to try and make a note to […]

Why trying to be what others like rarely work in making friends

This post is written for a person who feels the need to deliberately change their personality to fit into a new group or a relationship. They would consider it a good tactic to change the way they dress, alter their opinions, interests, and hobbies to match a new group of people. You may have been […]

You don’t need to love and be friends with everybody.

We’ve all been taught to be friends with everyone and to aim for universal love. However, I have come to the conclusion that this is not a great way to do things. It’s actually AWFUL. This virtue creates most of the unhappiness we feel every single day of our lives. There is a point to […]

Can two people be friends after they’ve dated?

The irony is that the Idealists* are the ones who have no trouble letting go of a relationship or, more accurately, redefining the relationship to more accurately match its natural flow. The Survivalist*, who are completely co-dependent, do not have a half-way mark to a relationship, and they only have two modes; deeper, […]

Never follow an ideology just to gain friends

There is nobody as weak in this world as a person who is desperate for friends. There is also nobody as unwanted as someone desperate for friends. You will only make good friends when you’re willing to lose a few who are simply not the right kind for you… Or to lose the whole lot […]

How to know true friends from those who are taking advantage?

The chances are you are following the rule that if they never mention money or would never take money from you if you offered, they are a good friend. Not true. There are more stuff to take from you other than money. Good fortune, fame, popularity, prestige, “cool” and all things worth lying for can rub […]

Why attractive girls should only be friends with equally attractive girls

Although it may be difficult to say what it is that makes a girl super attractive, the girls who have it know they do. They know it simply by the fact they’ve got men lining up to them and they don’t need to do anything to make that happen. These girls are not only a […]

Biggest mistakes that friends make when their friend has fallen in love

Friends are lovely, obviously, but sometimes they can get in the way of your happiness and wind up doing the opposite than what they were trying to do. There is a saying about a road to hell and good intentions that apply here. 🙂 Girls: Men are not monsters. No need to rough them up. […]

Bad friends / partners; God complex

You might have some of these in your circle of friends. As I am blogging on my spiritual blog, I will dare to mention that these people MAY BE responsible for some unexplained bad luck that is coming your way through The Law of The Truest Wish; “I want nothing more than that person to suffer […]

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