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The causes of depression and happiness are different according to your thinker type.

Cat Thinker get depressed when they feel they can’t ever have the sex they want and need again or for a long time to come. Dog Thinker get depressed if they are not loved (for anything but the sex they give). The fix for depression, as such, is different depending on whether you’re Timeless or […]

Depression: Don’t seek happiness, seek interesting things and feelings.

Happiness is such a difficult concept to be looking for. Instead, look for interesting things and feelings. Try to find anything interesting to do that gets your brain working. Interesting feelings can come from anywhere, including cutting, right? Just don’t cut because it’s just a little too desperate for a tiny problem like finding interesting […]

It is not beneficial for your future happiness to try and destroy your intended partner’s self-confidence.

This should go without saying. Still, there are people who attack people they’re interested in to bring them down to their own level. Ironically, these same people can get attacked in the attempt to reject them, which they can interpret as a type of come-on or at least as a sign of interest. It can […]

People focus on people that make them happy and those who get in the way of that happiness.

Your attention and focus on things are divided between two groups: Things and people that bring you happiness, joy, and pleasure and those things and people who threaten it. Sometimes, people are confused about which group they belong in or which group is the threat and which is the promise. Confusion over what is what. […]

Why being as abrasive as you can be in a civilized way is important for your future happiness

I am one of those people who sit quietly with a brooding sense of objection a lot. I WANT TO argue, but I fear that in the current company, the argument would lead to TOO MUCH DRAMA for what it’s worth, and that it is better to keep my opinion to myself and just finish […]

Normality, happiness, and the freedom of choice

I have to say the realization became as a shock to me. “But I am gay because I was told I have to be…” he said, as I was defending the homosexuals’ right to be that, because some people just are that way… And, to be fair, they are. However, being the Dog Thinker homosexual […]

How pursuit of happiness glogs up your emotions

The pursuit of happiness and “light” can cause us a lot of anxiety, especially if happiness is searched through spirituality. It gets even more troublesome when there is a ‘prize’ we’re after, such as a ‘True Emotion Mirror’. Suddenly, everyone is an expert on your happiness and goals, and you feel like you know nothing. […]