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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

Their Healing Precious Soulmate loves your True Emotion Mirror out of love and respect for you, too.

The Healing Precious Soulmate is a transitionary permanent bond between people. It is somewhat of a “false TrEmoR” but is an authentic, beautiful connection. The purpose of this connection is that of healing and revitalizing, as the name suggests. It is more selfless than the connection between True Emotion Mirrors, which has this deeply selfish […]

“Strong female character” doesn’t mean physical strength

One of my pet peeves in this world is Hollywood’s idea of what “a strong female character” means. They tend to take a male role and replace the actor with a woman. What the phrase means is not about physical strength,  it means a strong characterisation of a female; strong, good writing about a woman’s […]

Some secrets are kept from you out of respect for you.

There are times when people keep you at an arm’s lenght to protect you and to respect you. They may not be the kind of a person you think they are and they are acutely aware of that. Therefore, they keep you out of their lives. They may think you are naive, but they still […]

Your looks should reflect self-respect, respect for other people, and your romantic and sexual partner.

Your looks should be reflect respect. Respect for yourself, other people in general, and your romantic and sexual partner(s). It shouldn’t be about trying to fit a mold, trying to be perfect, gaining acceptance or approval for being prettier than others. You don’t need to be the prettiest thing alive, or the most handsome man […]

You have to respect people’s masculinity, too.

Femininity is always respected, right? A lot of talk goes into respecting women and feminine women and feminine needs and whatnot. Well, masculinity also deserves respect. One of the things that masculine people, masculine women included, don’t really like is maternal love energy in a hug from someone OTHER than their closely bonded mother, particularly […]

Love takes courage. (How much are you allowed as a man?)

Many men tend to react to the fear of doing the wrong thing by a woman by letting her take the lead. Most women don’t like being in complete charge, however. It’s a little like being in a relationship with your smartphone, right? A little pushback is nice. Having said that, a lot of men […]

The the Cat Type Thinkers and the Dog Type Thinker define “respect” differently.

When the Dog Type Thinkerasks for respect, they basically mean the exact opposite of what a Cat Type Thinkers means. Self-respect is similarly the opposite for them: the Dog Type Thinker respect: “Consider me worthy of your company and care.” the Dog Type Thinker self-respect: “I demand that you will not reject me because I […]

Learn to spar – test your strength against a worthy rival.

Most smart people protect their own idea of their high IQ by avoiding conversations with other smart people, or overpowering others’ opinions with strong opinions and loud voice, as to not be revealed to one’s own lacks in intelligence. That’s stupid. Learn to test your attractiveness, your charm, your talents, and your smarts… Whatever you […]

Definitions of self-respect.

Tick the right answers. (Some are wrong.) I hold myself to a standard that I am proud of and won’t allow anyone to drag me down from without a very good reason. I will not allow others to violate myself, my rights, or my values within reason. I will make sure others kneel before me. […]

Demanding respect only to feel disrespected (female quirks)

This DOES NOT apply to all women but explains some of the current day BS with #MeToo and other similar campaigns. I believe that there are women who demand insane levels of respect only to feel disrespected – to find the guy with the balls to call them on their BS… Or just take what […]

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